Talk Sex with Annette
Talk Sex with Annette
Where desire meets disruption—and pleasure becomes power.
Hosted by sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti, Talk Sex with Annette is the go-to podcast for bold, unfiltered conversations at the intersection of sexuality, identity, and empowerment.
From kink to connection, self-love to sexual healing, Annette dives into the topics most people are too afraid to touch—with expert guests, raw storytelling, and a feminist lens that challenges shame and reclaims pleasure.
Think smart, sexy, and radically real: this is the cultural conversation around sex that’s long overdue.
Episodes
342 episodes
How to Fix a Dead Bedroom with Smart Sex Toys | Luxus by Kiiroo
What if the key to fixing your sex life wasn’t more talking… but smarter tech?Whether you’re dealing with a dead bedroom, long-distance disconnect, or just feeling stuck in a sexual rut, today’s episode is all about the new g...
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Locktober 2025: The Orgasm Control Challenge That Makes Men Better Lovers
What if locking it up could actually unlock better sex?Welcome to Locktober 2025, the orgasm control challenge that’s helping men become more attentive, connected, and seriously better lovers. In this episode of Talk Sex with ...
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Male Chastity 101: How to Try It Without Freaking Out
What if the hottest thing you could do for your partner… was not come?Welcome to Talk Sex with Annette, where we’re diving into one of the most misunderstood—and surprisingly intimate—kinks out there: male chastity
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Kink Went Mainstream?! From TikTok Trends to Locktober Obsession (with Amanda Dames)
What happens when kink leaves the dungeon and hits the mainstream? From TikTok tutorials on rope play to luxury fashion houses sending models down the runway in harnesses, BDSM isn’t hiding in the shadows anymore. But has kink lost its edge—or ...
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5 Beginner Kinks to Try This Kinktober (With Sexy Challenges)
Ready to heat things up this October? 🎃🔥 Forget haunted houses—this Kinktober is about unlocking new thrills in the bedroom. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m breaking down 5 beginner-friendly kinks y...
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Premature Ejaculation? Last Longer AND Finish Stronger
Premature ejaculation is the most common sexual struggle men face—yet almost no one is talking about it honestly.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I sit down with Jeff Bennett, CEO of Morari, to unpack what really causes PE and ...
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Forbidden Moves: 7 Taboo Ways to Build Trust in Bed
We’re told some things in the bedroom are off limits — too risky, too taboo. But the truth? Those “forbidden” moves might be the key to more trust, more intimacy, and more unforgettable connection.In this episode of Talk Sex w...
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Why You’re Mismatched in Bed: The 4 Erotic Personas (and How to Sync)
Ever feel like you and your partner just aren’t speaking the same sexual language? You’re not “broken,” you might just be mismatched. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I sit down with Nicholas Velotta, Head of Relationship Rese...
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The #1 Oral Sex Mistake Men Make (And How To Fix It)
Most men think oral sex is about fancy tongue tricks or lasting as long as possible. But here’s the truth: the #1 mistake isn’t about your technique — it’s about what you’re missing.In this episode, I break down: ✨ The biggest o...
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Dismissive-Avoidant in Bed: Why They Pull Away (and What Actually Works)
If they finish… then shut down, this episode is for you. Today we break down dismissive-avoidant attachment in the bedroom—why someone can crave the physical but avoid the intimate—and what actually works to make connection (and f...
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Gentle FemDOM 101: 5 Steps to Domination He Secretly Craves
FemDom doesn’t have to be scary, it can be soft, playful, and insanely hot.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I break down 5 simple steps to Gentle FemDom, so you can explore dominance without latex, whips, ...
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Butt Stuff 101: The Beginner’s Guide to Pleasure (Without the Awkwardness)
Curious about butt stuff but don’t know where to start? You’re not alone. In this beginner-friendly guide, I sit down with Tim Lagman, certified sex educator and host of Sex Ed With Tim, to break down how to make backdoor...
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3 Moves That Make You Last Longer in Bed (No Pills, No Sprays)
Want to last longer in bed—without numbing creams, pills, or awkward distractions? You’ve been told to count backwards, think about baseball, or change positions… but none of that actually works. And worse? It disconnects you ...
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When Kink Gets Complicated: Relationship Struggles No One Talks About
Kinky couples are some of the most communicative, consent-savvy lovers out there—but that doesn’t mean their relationships are drama-free. Sometimes the same power dynamics that light you up in the bedroom can throw things off outside of it.
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The #1 Move That Turns Routine Sex Into Obsession
Is your intimacy starting to feel predictable? You’re not alone. Most couples fall into the same positions, the same rhythm, and the same script — and that’s when connection can start to feel routine instead of exciting.In this episode,...
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Can Kink Heal Religious Trauma? The Power of Pleasure After Purity Culture
What happens when kink becomes the key to healing religious shame? In this raw and redemptive episode I sit down with Lauren Elise Rogers, a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator who grew up in a high-control religion. Together,...
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How to Make Any Quickie Feel Like the Best Sex of Her Life
Quickies don’t have to be rushed, sloppy, or forgettable. In fact, when you know what to do, a 10-minute quickie can be hotter, more intense, and more memorable than an all-night session.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette,...
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Sex Questions Men Secretly Google at 2 a.m. -- Answered!
What’s the “right” size to satisfy a woman? How often should you really be having sex—or masturbating? And is it weird if you’re into something like ball-busting? Today, I’m joined by certified sexologist Dr. Susan Milstein to tackle the ...
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Season 2
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1:09:38
What to Do Before Sex So She’s Already Craving You
Before you even touch her, you can have her thinking about you, craving you, and pulling you closer. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I reveal the exact blueprint for what to do hours before sex so she’s already tur...
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14:43
Best Best Sex Positions for Real Bodies & Better Pleasure
Looking for sex positions that actually feel good—not just the ones you see in magazines or corn?In this episode , I’m joined by therapist, and author Suzannah Weiss to break down the truth about what makes a sex position great—for your...
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The #1 Mistake About Female Orgasm And How to Actually Fix It
Most people think the secret to the female orgasm is a technique. But the truth? The biggest mistake is a mindset.In this episode, I reveal the #1 reason she’s not finishing—and it’s probably not what you think.&nbs...
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Should Your Doctor Be Prescribing Sex Toys? Vibrators Should Be Part of Your Health Plan
In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we’re diving into the surprising ways sex toys are revolutionizing sexual health—and why more medical professionals are finally taking pleasure seriously.You’ll learn:Why vib...
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50:43
How to Plan a Threesome (Without Making It Weird or Wrecking Your Relationship)
Ever fantasized about a threesome—but worried it might get… complicated? In this episode, I break down exactly how to plan a threesome without turning it into an emotional mess. From red and green flags when choosing a third...
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How My Ex-Boyfriend Turned Me Gay: The Truth About Queer Fluidity & Bad Sex
What happens when bad sex, emotional labor, and a complete lack of foreplay push you to swear off men altogether? In this spicy and unfiltered Pride Month episode, I’m joined by three of my closest queer friends to unpack a rising trend: women ...
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