Talk Sex with Annette
Talk Sex with Annette
Where desire meets disruption—and pleasure becomes power.
Hosted by sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti, Talk Sex with Annette is the go-to podcast for bold, unfiltered conversations at the intersection of sexuality, identity, and empowerment.
From kink to connection, self-love to sexual healing, Annette dives into the topics most people are too afraid to touch—with expert guests, raw storytelling, and a feminist lens that challenges shame and reclaims pleasure.
Think smart, sexy, and radically real: this is the cultural conversation around sex that’s long overdue.
Episodes
356 episodes
Exhibitionism: How to Explore the Kink of Being Watched—Without Making It Weird
In this episode, we’re breaking down exhibitionism — why being watched can feel exciting, how to tell if it’s your kink, and simple ways to explore it without making things awkward.I’m joined by Laura Desiree, creative dire...
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54:28
How to Be the Best She’s Ever Had Without Needing a Big… Anything
Want to be the best she’s ever had… without needing a big anything? You’re not alone. Most men secretly worry about size, performance, or whether they measure up to her past partners. But here’s the truth:What makes sex unf...
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Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing Now? The New Dating Shift
Why are boyfriends suddenly embarrassing? A recent piece by Vogue titled “Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing Now?” sparked a global reaction, pointing out that some women are now hesitant to post their partners, claim relation...
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53:40
How to Touch a Woman So She Actually Wants You — The 4-Minute Method
On today’s episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m answering one of the most common questions I get from men:“How do I get my partner to want intimacy again — not out of oblig...
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Inside Grindr: Sex, Secrets & Who’s Really There
Grindr isn’t just a hookup app—it’s where identity, secrecy, and desire collide. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I sit down with Zach Zane, author of Boyslut and the official Sex & Relationship Expert for ...
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Three Signs She Wants You Sexually (And What to Do About It)
You know that moment when you think she’s into you… but you’re not sure? Or maybe you’ve been with your partner for years and you’re wondering—does she still want me like that?In this episode, I’m breaking down the three ...
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15:40
The Real Reason Sex Toys Kill the Mood — And How to Make Them Hot as Hell
You want to bring toys into the bedroom… but every time you try, it feels awkward, forced, or like it kills the vibe. So the toys go back in the drawer and you go back to “just us” — even if “just us” has started to feel a little routine.
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Stop Faking It: Train Your Body for Real, Full-Body Orgasms
If you’ve ever “faked it” just to wrap things up faster — you’re not alone. But what if your body could learn to create the kind of deep, full-body pleasure you’ve been pretending to have?In this episode, I’ll show you how to tr...
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Group Sex 101: The Real Rules That Keep It Hot (and Safe)
In this episode we’re diving into Group Sex 101: The Real Rules That Keep It Hot (and Safe).So you finally got the invite: the group chat is buzzing, the lube is packed, and you’re ready for your first play party, threesome, or po...
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The Skill That Makes Penetration Unforgettable (and It’s Not Size)
Not all orgasms are created equally. There’s a world of difference between a quick release… and the kind of deep, full-body orgasm that makes her melt into you. And here’s the kicker: it’s not about going harder or faster.In t...
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How to Have a Threesome That Brings You Closer—Not Blows You Up
Most people talk about threesomes like they’re either a wild fantasy or a relationship wrecking ball. But here’s the truth—when done right, a threesome can deepen intimacy, build trust, and light your desire on fire.In this epis...
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How to Read Her Body (So She Actually Orgasms)
If she’s not coming and your first thought is “she’s just hard to please” — it’s time to rewrite the script.Arousal isn’t guesswork. It’s science you can feel with your hands.In this video, I’m breaking down t...
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Hotwife 101 w/ Serenity Cox: Rules & How to Start
Curious about the hotwife lifestyle? 🔥In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I sit down with Hot Wife and Wifey Ambassador Serenity Cox to break down one of the most talked-about relationship trends right now. W...
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How to Top as a Submissive (Without Topping from the Bottom)
Submission isn’t weakness. It’s power offered—not power lost.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we’re pulling back the curtain on one of the most misunderstood dynamics in kink: how to top as a submissive.Th...
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How to Fix a Dead Bedroom with Smart Sex Toys | Luxus by Kiiroo
What if the key to fixing your sex life wasn’t more talking… but smarter tech?Whether you’re dealing with a dead bedroom, long-distance disconnect, or just feeling stuck in a sexual rut, today’s episode is all about the new g...
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Locktober 2025: The Orgasm Control Challenge That Makes Men Better Lovers
What if locking it up could actually unlock better sex?Welcome to Locktober 2025, the orgasm control challenge that’s helping men become more attentive, connected, and seriously better lovers. In this episode of Talk Sex with ...
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Male Chastity 101: How to Try It Without Freaking Out
What if the hottest thing you could do for your partner… was not come?Welcome to Talk Sex with Annette, where we’re diving into one of the most misunderstood—and surprisingly intimate—kinks out there: male chastity
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Kink Went Mainstream?! From TikTok Trends to Locktober Obsession (with Amanda Dames)
What happens when kink leaves the dungeon and hits the mainstream? From TikTok tutorials on rope play to luxury fashion houses sending models down the runway in harnesses, BDSM isn’t hiding in the shadows anymore. But has kink lost its edge—or ...
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52:23
5 Beginner Kinks to Try This Kinktober (With Sexy Challenges)
Ready to heat things up this October? 🎃🔥 Forget haunted houses—this Kinktober is about unlocking new thrills in the bedroom. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m breaking down 5 beginner-friendly kinks y...
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Premature Ejaculation? Last Longer AND Finish Stronger
Premature ejaculation is the most common sexual struggle men face—yet almost no one is talking about it honestly.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I sit down with Jeff Bennett, CEO of Morari, to unpack what really causes PE and ...
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46:39
Forbidden Moves: 7 Taboo Ways to Build Trust in Bed
We’re told some things in the bedroom are off limits — too risky, too taboo. But the truth? Those “forbidden” moves might be the key to more trust, more intimacy, and more unforgettable connection.In this episode of Talk Sex w...
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Why You’re Mismatched in Bed: The 4 Erotic Personas (and How to Sync)
Ever feel like you and your partner just aren’t speaking the same sexual language? You’re not “broken,” you might just be mismatched. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I sit down with Nicholas Velotta, Head of Relationship Rese...
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The #1 Oral Sex Mistake Men Make (And How To Fix It)
Most men think oral sex is about fancy tongue tricks or lasting as long as possible. But here’s the truth: the #1 mistake isn’t about your technique — it’s about what you’re missing.In this episode, I break down: ✨ The biggest o...
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Dismissive-Avoidant in Bed: Why They Pull Away (and What Actually Works)
If they finish… then shut down, this episode is for you. Today we break down dismissive-avoidant attachment in the bedroom—why someone can crave the physical but avoid the intimate—and what actually works to make connection (and f...
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