The Sex Position For Her Orgasm (Most Men Skip)

Most men go straight for missionary, or cowgirl—and completely miss the one position that practically hands her an orgasm on a silver platter.

In this episode, I’m walking you through the best sex position you’re probably not using—and exactly why it works. We’re talking G-spot access, A-spot pressure, clit contact without a circus of props or acrobatics.

You’ll get:

• The science behind why this angle turns her on
• Step-by-step breakdown of how to set it up
• Tips for keeping her in that “right there—don’t stop” zone
• What to say when she’s on the edge (and how not to screw it up)

Whether you’re using a cock or a toy, this move delivers—and it just might become her new favorite. If you want to give her the kind of sex that makes her melt into the sheets and text her best friend about it, press play.

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Chapters

• 0:00 Welcome to Talk Sex
• 2:22 The Science Behind Female Orgasm
• 5:42 Step-by-Step Guide to Modified Pillow Doggy
• 8:44 Why This Position Works Differently
• 10:39 Your Challenge and Coaching Invitation
• 11:44 Closing and Contact Information

Transcript

Speaker 1: 1:03

Do the sex pleasure and desire Around here. Nothing's off limits. These are the kinds of conversations we save for our boldest group chats, our most trusted friends and, of course, the women's locker room. Think raw, honest and sometimes unapologetically raunchy. If you've been here from the beginning, thank you, and if you're new, welcome to my podcast. Where desire meets disruption and pleasure becomes power. Now let's talk about sex Cheers.

Speaker 1: 1:38

Today's Talk Sex for the Net topic is the best sex position for her orgasm. You know what blows my mind when a woman tells me I didn't know sex could feel that good. And no, she's not talking about bondage or toys or some marathon oral session. She's talking about a single position, one position that changes everything, the kind that leaves her breathless and begging for more and wondering why no one ever showed her this before. Today I am going to be breaking down the one position most people overlook or think isn't that important. That is one of the most orgasm-friendly moves out there. It's not fancy, it's not complicated, but it hits the G spot, the A spot, keeps click contact going and builds way more connection than the old doggy, missionary cowgirl routine If you want to give her the kind of sex she'll be thinking about tomorrow and the next day and the next day and texting her friends about behind your back in a good way. Then keep listening, and I want to remind you that I am over on OnlyFans and there I am sharing my sex and intimacy how-tos, demonstrations and audio-guided self-pleasure meditations and so much more all designed to help you improve your sex and intimacy life and pleasure. Starting tonight, I'm also over on Supstack where I am sharing a lot of the same and so much more. You can find me in both places with my handle at TalkSexWithAnette and, of course, you can scroll down to the notes section in the description of this episode, and you're going to find links to wherever you want to find me below. But for now, let's get ready to dive into the one sex position that is going to give her all of the orgasms she's ever wanted. Let's get ready to talk about sex Cheers.

Speaker 1: 3:50

So I want to start by talking about the science of why this position works. Let's get clinical for a second, but make it sexy. According to research in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, 70% of women need both literal stimulation plus internal stimulation to reach orgasm, especially intense orgasm. Add to that the G-spot sits about 1.5 to 2 inches just inside the front vaginal wall. The A-spot is deeper, just past the cervix, along the same wall, and fast friction and heavy thrusting, well, it actually numbs those nerve endings over time. So to unlock her orgasm potential, well, you need angled, intentional, pressure-based strokes that stimulate those zones without overwhelming them.

Speaker 1: 4:48

Enter the modified pillow doggy, also known as deep angle rear entry with clit access position. That's a long name, so we're going to stick with modified pillow doggy. Let's get into how to do it. Here's my step-by-step. You can head over to my OnlyFans page for a demonstration and a more visual representation of this position, and it will be up in the next week or two for you.

Speaker 1: 5:19

But for now let's start with the setup. Lay her on her stomach with her chest low on the bed, hips elevated, with a firm pillow or a couple of pillows under her pelvis. Her knees should be slightly apart, but her thighs mostly together. This tightens the channel and presses her vaginal wall right into your shaft or the toy you're using, if you're using a toy. So why this matters? It changes the angle, so your penis or toy strokes upward into her G-spot and A-spot area. No jackhammer needed. Step two enter slowly and anchor yourself, so you're going to slide in slowly, with lots of lube, of course. Place one hand on her lower back or reach forward to hold her hand or wrist, depending on whether you're going for a tender or dominant energy. The other hand, it's free to reach around and stimulate her clit. This is your moment to own the rhythm.

Speaker 1: 6:25

Step three is finding the sweet spot and then staying there. Once you're in use. Shallow upward strokes like slow motion, grinding, not full pull out thrusts. Think of it like giving her a G-spot massage from the inside. Use your hips or your arm if you're using a toy, not your entire body. Here's a pro tip when she starts to moan or push back, don't speed up, even though I know you're going to want to stay at that pace and let her build. Step four you're going to layer clitoral stimulation. Use your fingers or a small vibe to reach around and stimulate her clit while you move inside of her. Better yet, have her touch herself while you're deep inside her. That combo of internal pressure, clit touch and feeling your control is the magic cocktail.

Speaker 1: 7:22

Step five, and one of the most important steps, is pay attention to the signs. When her back arches, her thighs squeeze or she starts grinding back into you. You're there, lock in. Give her permission to go over the edge by staying consistent. Don't speed up. We're staying consistent. This is the moment people often rush, especially men and people with penises, and I know you're excited too, but you gotta stay consistent and not speed up. Instead, say something like right there, I've got you, and hold through the release.

Speaker 1: 8:08

So why does this position hit different, even though it's very close to traditional doggy? This isn't just a position. It's a rewiring how you think about sex. It's not about going harder, it's about going smarter. It's about understanding her body, taking control in a way that makes her surrender and giving her a new reference point for what deep pleasure feels like. And I am here to tell you that deep pleasure and orgasms that come from deep pleasure, stimulation. They are unforgettable and will definitely make you think again and again about the person who is part of making that happen for you.

Speaker 1: 8:55

Look, most people, especially men, skip this move because it's not flashy. But that's exactly why it works. It's intimate, it's slow burn, it lets her body talk and gives you a front row seat to the fireworks. Here's my challenge to you for this week Try this position, Follow the steps, but here's the rule you do all the adjusting, don't make her work. Let her be a pillow princess. You lift her hips, you slow down your rhythm, you find her sound and move toward them, and when she orgasms, don't speed up. Stay with her, let it ripple. This is going to be as intense and as satisfying for you as it is for her, I promise. Then, when you're done, come back and thank me, or, better yet, send this to your best friend to make sure they get it right too, friend, to make sure they get it right too.

Speaker 1: 9:55

If this episode got you hot, curious or ready to upgrade your sex game, hit subscribe, leave a comment and send this to someone who needs to up their bedroom IQ. And if you would like some personalized support in your own pleasure journey, a wing woman, if you will, a cheerleader, someone who's going to help you either with your partner or experience more pleasure in your own body. My sex and intimacy coaching books are open. You can book an appointment with me by reaching out to me at Annette at TalkSexWithAnnettecom. You can find out more about my coaching services at TalkSexWithAnnettecom, but I'd love to hear from you either way. Shoot me a comment, a thought, a question. You can do that by emailing me at Annette at TalkSexWithAnettecom, or you can head on over to YouTube and drop your comment in the video that accompanies this episode. You can also scroll down to my speak pipe below and shoot me your question or comment there. Until next time, I'll see you in the locker room. Folks, cheers, ring loop.