The Sex Move That Makes Women Beg For More—Most Men Never Do This!

 Most men think they know how to turn a woman on—but they’re getting it all wrong. There’s one move that makes women obsessed in bed, and yet almost no one does it. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m exposing the game-changing technique that triggers deeper, more intense orgasms than anything else. It’s not just about slowing down—it’s about unlocking a hidden pleasure response in her body that makes her crave you uncontrollably. Plus, I’m revealing a shocking truth from Dr. Laurie Mintz about why most guys are killing a woman’s pleasure without even realizing it. If you want to be the guy she can’t stop thinking about, keep listening. 

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Chapters

• 0:00 Masturbation Monday Introduction
• 10:44 The Deep Tease Effect Explained
• 25:44 Step

Transcript

Speaker 1: 0:44

do the sex. Welcome to Masturbation Monday with me, annette Benedetti, your host for Locker Room Talk and Chats. This is your invitation to join me for coffee in bed and a candid conversation about the masturbation practice I'm developing to support my mental, physical and emotional health and help manifest my dreams. Masturbation Monday is a guide to self-pleasure, better sex and using the power of the pussy to open new doors to a better life. Today's Masturbation Monday topic is the one sex move that drives women crazy that most men never do. If you've ever wondered why some men drive women crazy in bed and make them obsessed, while other men get the plight that was nice, well, this episode is for you because there is one move that triggers deeper, more intense orgasms than almost anything else, yet most men don't do it. Why? Because they are skipping over the one thing that sets apart good sex, okay sex, from. I absolutely needed sex, but here's the thing. I'm not just talking about slowing down. There is a specific process that makes a woman's body crave you like crazy, and I'm going to be breaking it down into three steps. On top of that, I'm going to be sharing a science-backed orgasm hack that I learned from my interview with leading orgasm and women's pleasure researcher, dr Lori Mentz. But before we dive in, I want to remind you that I'm on OnlyFans, where I am sharing my sex and intimacy how-tos and demonstrations, along with audio guided self-pleasure meditations and so much more. You can find me there with my handle at TalkSexWithAnette. I'm also over on Substack sharing the same and so much more, and my handle there is at TalkSexWithAnette. And, of course, if you are looking for a guide, a wing woman or a sex and intimacy coach, I have my books open now and you can find out more about that at TalkSexWithAnettecom. You can also scroll down and I will be posting all the links to where you can find me below.

Speaker 1: 3:11

Now let's dive in. So what is this big move that drives women crazy? It is the deep tease effect. Most men make the mistake of rushing right into high intensity stimulation, thinking more pressure and more speed equals more pleasure. According to the Kinsey Institute, that actually overwhelms the nerve endings. Instead, the key is building unbearable anticipation and activating her brain before her body, because for women, sexual pleasure starts in the mind. So here's how to do it. Let's dive into my three-step process, and it's going to include exercises you can start doing tonight and things to avoid.

Speaker 1: 3:56

Step one is the invisible touch technique. Before you touch her, make her feel your presence, activating her nerve endings and anticipation before touch ever even takes place. The two mistakes that most men make are one grabbing, squeezing and rubbing right away. This is routine, it's expected and it can actually be really jarring to her body and her nerve endings. The second one is going straight for her boobs, her butt or between her legs. This completely skips building anticipation. So what to do instead? Before you even touch her, make her feel your presence. Hover your hand over her skin and let her feel your warmth before ever making contact. Breathe next to her ear, down her neck, over her lips. Make her ache for your touch before you ever give it. Try this exercise tonight. Don't touch her for 30 seconds, but hover your hand over her inner thighs, her belly, her breasts and watch how her body naturally moves towards you, asking for your touch. The science behind it According to the Journal of Neuroscience, this plays into anticipatory arousal, which increases dopamine and makes her hypersensitive to touch.

Speaker 1: 5:24

Step two is a three second rule Tease and delay. Instead of rushing, touch her slowly. Let her feel every nerve ending react as you move across her skin. Remember, the longer the buildup, the more intense the release. The most common mistake that men make is jumping to direct stimulation, thinking more pressure equals better. So what should you do instead? Slow your movement down by 300%, 300%. When you finally touch her, move so slow that she can barely stand it. Spend at least at least three seconds on one spot, one area of stimulation, before moving to the next. Try this exercise tonight Instead of going straight for the clip, run your fingers lightly along her inner thighs for at least 15 seconds before moving on. Use your fingertips to trace circles around her hip bones before moving lower. And when you do finally touch her clit or her vulva, use the least amount of pressure possible. And of course, there's science behind this move. According to the National Library of Medicine, delaying pleasure triggers oxytocin release, which makes arousal feel more intense when it finally does happen.

Speaker 1: 6:53

Step number three is the start and stop the edge effect. When she's just about to peak, you're going to stop just for a second and make her crave the next touch. This creates an overwhelming intense full body climax when she finally does release. The two mistakes that men make are, first of all, keeping the same rhythm once she's aroused and also thinking that faster equals better. What to do instead? Ride as she starts to react, pause just for two or three seconds, make her feel your absence. Then, when you start again, start slowly. This is going to build arousal. Do this cycle for three or four times and then give her full contact and send her over the edge. You'll notice that this is the same pattern that you are going to see on some of the sex toys that have the patterns, the tapping patterns and the pause patterns. They are there for a reason and they do their job. When a woman is fully in her body and sensing everything, this is what those patterns are designed to do, and, of course, there's science behind it. According to the Kinsey Institute, this mimics a technique called edging, which is known to build orgasms that last longer and are stronger. So here's a wild fact that I learned from my interview with Dr Lori Mintz Women have their most intense orgasms when they are mentally overloaded with sensation.

Speaker 1: 8:33

So what does this mean? Unlike men, who typically experience pleasure in a more localized way, women's orgasms are deeply tied to their brain's ability to process multiple layers and types of stimulation at once. When a woman is receiving varied, unexpected and overwhelming sensations physical, emotional and psychological all at the same time, her orgasms become exponentially more intense. Think of it like this A single repetitive touch, like rubbing at the same pace over a long period of time, equals her brain getting used to it and the orgasm being meh. On the other hand, a built-up of multiple sensations think temperature, play, dirty talk, pressure changes equal her brain being overloaded and overwhelmed with sensation and explosive, incredible orgasms. Bonus tip pair teasing with an unexpected sensory element like an ice cube, flavored lube or even fruit juice. One guy put strawberry juice on my lips and went down on me and it threw my body into overdrive and I had an amazing orgasm. I'm telling you all about it over on my OF page.

Speaker 1: 9:56

Now that you know the move that drives women crazy, go home and try it tonight or as soon as possible with your partner. Then come back and tell me how it works for you. You can do that by dropping a note in the comments below or emailing me at Annette at TalkSexWithAnnettecom. And if you want more game changing tips that will improve your sex life, make sure to like and subscribe, because next week I'm going to be dropping an episode that is a science backed way to make her wet with words that's right Without even touching her. This is a science backed method that helps you use your words to get her, so turn on. She's going to be dragging you to the bedroom. And, of course, if you are looking for a sex and intimacy coach, a wing woman, someone to help you in your own pleasure journey, my books are open. You can find out more about that at TalkSexWithAnnettecom. You can reach out to me, email me at Annette at TalkSexWithAnnettecom. I would love to work with you. So until next time, folks, I'll see you in the locker room. Cheers.