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Welcome to a very special New Year’s episode of Locker Room Talk & Shots! Kerry and I are kicking off 2025 with some juicy revelations and resolutions designed to keep you—and us—cumming all year long. From unapologetic self-love practices to sizzling ways to spice up your intimacy, we’re sharing our most exciting goals for the year ahead and how we’re planning to turn up the pleasure in every area of life. Grab a drink, get comfortable, and let’s toast to a year of more orgasms, more connection, and more unapologetic fun!
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Do the sex Think fun, honest and feminist as fuck, and always with the goal of fighting the patriarchy. One female orgasm at a time. Welcome to the locker room. Today's locker Talk and Shots topic is sexy revolutions and resolutions. Here's what's to come in 2025. That is C-U-M. Thank you very much. It's much more funny if you can see how I wrote it down. Anyways, before we dive into not only what we learned in the realm of love, sex and lust last year and we learned a lot and then also the resolutions that not only we are making, but we have some ideas for you. If you don't know what you want to do in 2025 as far as resolutions, we're going to map some really fun stuff out for you. But before we dive into that, I'm going to remind you that I just embarked on one of my own resolutions, which was to launch my spicy account over at OF you know what I'm talking about.
Speaker 1:My handle there is at TalkSexWithAnnette, and there I am finally going to have the freedom to create content a library, if you will, of sexy tutorials, how-tos, video, audio, pictorially if you will, without worry of being gotten into trouble. Some of the platforms that I'm on do not appreciate my content as much as they should, and so I have to tiptoe around a lot of stuff, but this year you're going to be able to go there and really access all of my knowledge. Yes, stuff stuff, some fun stuff, so check it out.
Speaker 1:My guest today is one of my very good friends, carrie. She has been on in past episodes and she has joined me today because this year we have spent a lot of time together and done a lot of things together, and this was a perfect time for us. We are also going to be spending New Year's Eve together with some of our other sexy friends, but we felt like this was a great episode for us to reflect on our revelations from last year and then share resolutions together because, well, we obviously know a lot of those things about ourselves and each other and we thought it'd be a fun topic. But, carrie, where have they encountered you before? On my podcast? What topics?
Speaker 2:um, let's see, I think um one of your other guests has mentioned me in a few of her her tales liberty um you met her before you met her, yeah, and some of my stories right um. I was on one talking about my bdsm journey. It was.
Speaker 1:It was a one about being a sub. Scroll back it's her journey into being a sub and um what other one?
Speaker 2:I think it's been some masturbation Mondays.
Speaker 1:And then flirting, how women want men to flirt with them. That was received well. Yeah, the men loved it.
Speaker 2:Oh, great, thank you.
Speaker 1:Anyways, they didn't listen to us. Sorry, go back and listen again, guys. Maybe give it a second chance, but right now. Earlier today we had a couple cocktails, so we're in the New Year's Eve spirit already and we are ready to talk about what we learned Sexy, sexy revelations and our resolutions for next year that include lots of sexy stuff. So get your pen and paper out. If you did not learn the things we did from last year, that's okay. What we are going to do is share our revelations with you so that you don't have to learn them the hard way, like we did, and we are going to help you make a little list of possible resolutions.
Speaker 1:Sexy resolutions will have you coming and coming and coming and feeling pleasure and self-love in 2025. Okay, we have our glasses that are almost empty cheers to 2025. Lots ofms, let's just dive in. I think what I want to do is kick this off with our biggest sex intimacy lust, like love, like you know juicy revelations from last year. Do you have one you want to jump in with?
Speaker 2:I have two. I think I have two. I think Maybe the first one was I have a very good friend, a sexological body worker. She's at Creative Body Works, I think is her website, but she has always encouraged like taking the time to like when you're touching yourself, you're masturbating, you're really like touching yourself, like closing your eyes and touching yourself as you'd like a lover to touch you and really kind of like tune into that as you're touching yourself. You know I'd try and knock it out real fast before bed with a toy you know a wand will get you there really fast sometimes or a clit sucking toy, but this time I'm really like dialing in my pleasure and I felt like, wow, that was like a revolution for me and even though I'd heard it for so long to like really take the time to get in with yourself, I hadn't done that, so it made a big a significant, huge difference.
Speaker 1:I think that goes along with my biggest revelation from this year, which is like if you treat yourself like a lover, like you take all of the enthusiasm and knowledge and care and thoughtfulness and put it into yourself in the way in which you would a lover or someone you are in love with, I mean, it will literally change your life. It will change how you see yourself. When you start treating yourself with that kind of intention and love, you start to actually see yourself.
Speaker 2:You see yourself and you'll be shocked at how you almost mistreat yourself sometimes. Because I had that thought too earlier in the year and I was like start treating myself the way I treat somebody when I have new relationship, energy with them, and I'm like you know what, if I was staying over at their house, I would have made their bed as soon as I got out of it and I would have like made sure the counter in the bathroom was clean instead of leaving a mess for me, for myself to clean up later, because I'm not giving myself that same care and concern. So like start giving yourself that energy and it's, it's incredible, it's it's transformational.
Speaker 1:Right, absolutely.
Speaker 1:I think for me that also things like I, so I have been single all through this year and for the foreseeable future, because dating myself is amazing, like I am a great girlfriend I really am and I think one of the things I have done is because now, all of the resources that I was putting into someone else, I was like, oh, what am I going to do with these?
Speaker 1:And typically what I think a lot of women do is we find then another like undeserving person to like give all those resources to, and instead I was like I guess I'll just give them to myself. And so it was like if I wanted something to myself, and so it was like if I wanted something skincare products or a special treatment or a vacation somewhere, or like I wanted really good food in my for whatever it was I put it back into myself and I was like it was literally like tending to a garden, and I think this year for me has been the biggest physical, emotional, mental glow up of probably my entire life and just think you're just planting the seeds.
Speaker 1:Just at the beginning, you treat yourself like you would a lover. Um, people around you respond to that. People tend to treat you better. When they see you treating yourself better, yeah, I don't know if it's like, then you start putting off this, like energy, like, yeah, I'm a goddess. Why wouldn't you, you know, why wouldn't you want to worship? But yeah, it does change how people treat you, yeah, so that would be also one of my biggest revelations from last year. Also, more masturbation, more orgasms, more pleasure equals like a healthier you, for sure, and a more vibrant you, and like you will vibrate on a higher frequency and you'll know it, because people are like just drawn to you and treat you differently yes, do you think?
Speaker 2:I think it's so true? I think it's so true. They've literally done studies and measured people's, people's waves. So, yeah, okay.
Speaker 2:My second one was oh, my gosh. So I don't know if you guys have heard of the stars talk, but it's the talk um you can have with a new partner. You talk about um kind of your either sexual history, you talk about your testing, about, uh, your avoids, um, if you look it up, it's um, somebody pretty brilliant came up with it and it's a good way to kind of broach the conversation around sex and how you would like to be intimate with a partner. And it gets that out of the way, and so I had not done it really before.
Speaker 2:I think you know, like most people, you kind of stumble into a relationship and you hope everything's going to work and then you try and correct it later but you're feeling resentment about it no-transcript, like to have happen, and so it was a real turn on and it was a turning point for me because I was like this is so powerful, because if I can't have this talk with somebody and then kind of get excited about it, then I don't know that I want to be playing with you like if, if we can't have this talk with somebody and then kind of get excited about it, then I don't know that I want to be playing with you. Like, if we can't have this like adult talk about this, is what's going to feel good for me, what's going to feel good for you? Where can we meet before you know we really get intimate.
Speaker 2:I think it really lays the groundwork for something like that's a lot better for everyone involved Safer, just more pleasurable.
Speaker 1:Yes, so you think having that conversation ahead of time, yeah, yeah that's my big other revolution, my revolutionary takeaway from 2024.
Speaker 2:2024.
Speaker 1:Okay, that's a good one. So again, learn to communicate Basically. You don't have anything to lose, really.
Speaker 2:No, because if they don't want to have that conversation, you don't want to be involved with that person anyway, yeah.
Speaker 1:So I think another big takeaway from 2024 for me was when I entered this year, I um was on a healing journey, folks. I had ended like a significant relationship in my life, that one in which I had really like visualized, like I had put kind of my whole future was tied into this relationship, and so it was like a big deal and had been for years. So it was kind of at this time last year I was just, I had no clue, uh, moving forward, what I, what I wanted life to look like, what it could look like or how it would even feel to be past the healing part. And one of the big things I had was I was measuring my healing by when I'd be ready to date again to date, conventionally, to date, in a way that I was looking for my person again. And my biggest sort of surprising takeaway from this year was there was this moment where I was like am I ready to date again? Am I ready to open up to or to try to find love again? Am I ready to like, search for and find the one or my partner or whatever be in a relationship again? And I had this moment where I was like I don't want it, I'm not interested in it, like I feel. No, I'm like so content right now and I'm really enjoying what I'm doing and where I'm at, and I'm like, if I if there's anything I want to do right now, like I want to, I want to find some lovers and we'll get into that in the next half of this.
Speaker 1:But, yeah, so the biggest thing I learned is like healing, the measure of healing from the loss of a relationship, whether it's through death or breakup or whatever the traumatic loss of a relationship. For me, it's not about being ready to find the next person. It's about hitting this place where you're just feeling yourself and you're in a good place and you're happy with life and it has nothing really to do, like perhaps someone stumbles into your life and you're like, okay, well, I found this person and I feel good. But yeah, just the idea that being healed and being happy and being fulfilled and being like, uh, um, thriving and thriving doesn't have to have anything to do with it being in a relationship, you know.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah, I completely agree. I think it's the idea of building a life that you love so much that you won't compromise that life you love for somebody who's not going to show up for you or do what you need. Anybody you bring into your life that you introduce to your life romantically would have to build on the life you already have and that you love and you wouldn't give up part of those aspects of the life you love for that person.
Speaker 1:You know like they should be the icing on the cake instead of this other person being the cake cake right, and so them being in your life or leaving your life isn't going to disturb the core part of the best parts of your life, right I'm saying this as a non-monogamous person too, so well and I've said like I don't think I I don't know what I'm in, like I definitely, um, in the past, was in a relationship and I was like you know, I'm willing to be monogamous in this relationship because I feel x, y and z.
Speaker 1:I don't know what I am, but I also, you know, I've been in non-monogamous situations and I've been in relationships or watched people who are poly and they have the same problems. It's true.
Speaker 2:We're all human.
Speaker 1:It's all the same. You know, the same problem is I am like on a roll in life right now. I'm in a really good place and I realized. What I realized was that being healed is not measured by being ready to date again after the end of a traumatic relationship. It's really just being in a place where you're like I am in the sweet spot of life and I am thriving. You know, and I am going to be protective of this level of happiness and, um yeah, abundance that I have at all costs and people, whether friends or lovers, are only welcome to join if they aren't like destructive to it yes, I think that's the best way of putting it if they're not destructive to it.
Speaker 1:Yes, uh, so that was another big one. Do you have anything?
Speaker 2:else, oh god, um no, I think those are like my top two the stars talk and really taking the time to get to know my body and warm myself up like a girlfriend like my own girlfriend like a girlfriend notice, notice my own girlfriend Like a girlfriend.
Speaker 1:Notice what she said. I would also like to say I think this year I learned that my pussy is magic, and I say my pussy, but what I'm really talking about is my sexual energy. Like it is so valuable and it's so strong and there's so much strength to it. Strong and there's so much strength to it, and meaning that when you really realize what your sexual energy is, where it comes from, how it manifests in your body and how it intertwines with all the other energies in your body and how it affects all areas of your life, and you put energy into it and you like grow it and make it a really strong part of your being, it's incredibly powerful.
Speaker 1:Yeah, by focusing on the power of my pussy this year, I have manifested so much shit good shit, good shit, not bad shit. Uh, and I will be sharing uh throughout this year approaches to manifesting the things that you want through building and growing your sexual energy and how to do that. So stay tuned. But, yeah, I like finally came to peace with myself and and as a sexual being, and realizing this, this stuff, this thing that is such a big core part of me, is incredibly powerful and I can use it to help other people heal and grow and prosper. Thus that's how I started coaching this year, and I have loved intimacy coaching. I've had amazing clients and it's been really fulfilling to see them thrive.
Speaker 2:I have no doubt there are going to be many more people thriving under your tutelage.
Speaker 1:Under my tutelage. Just call me teacher. Now we're going to move on to our resolutions for 2025. We're just going to move on to our resolutions for 2025. We're just going to, like, put them out there. If you don't have, uh, a resolution mapped out for 2025 and I know, like everyone's like I'm gonna lose weight, I'm gonna run more, I'm gonna do that, you know, in your list of resolutions, if you are not prioritizing your pleasure and your sexual self, then listen to this episode. Pick one of the things we're coming up with, right, yeah, yeah. So you already have yours mapped out, or at least one, right I have.
Speaker 2:It's basically a continuation of continuing to get to know my body and treat myself better. And yeah, just like up my self pleasure game this year, I usually take a whole afternoon out of the weekend and dedicate it to myself and I feel like that's becoming my ritual. So maybe it's like building more of a ritual around it and maintaining that. I think that's pretty powerful around it and maintaining that.
Speaker 1:I think that's pretty powerful. So you are going to create a specific time each week to dedicate to your own sexual pleasure. Yeah, yeah, I've ignored it for far too long Right yeah, and I think that's really common. I think a lot of women especially ignore it, but also men, also men, yes, right.
Speaker 1:So I have a lot of ideas for resolutions and then I have sort of my own resolutions. Okay. So over the past couple of years, if you've been listening to this podcast, you know that I have discovered for the first time ever my G spot, my A spot, and I love it. I love that. But I feel like I really want to get to the point in my self-pleasure practice this year that I can find them quickly, easily, and that I can stimulate them as easily as I can my clitoris, and I think there's a couple of things that have to happen there.
Speaker 1:I think that I have to because I think a lot of what happens for women is our blocks to feeling our G-spot and our A-spot, any kind of pleasure. There's a lot of mental stuff, there's shame, that goes on. Also, we're not taught about them. So I think I'm just going to have to really bug myself a lot this year. I mean, yeah, that's pretty much what I'm going to, but I want to do a lot of exploration and masturbation, whether that's on my own or with a partner, and I want to um, document it and share, because I don't know if y'all remember, but in 2022, I believe I did 365 days of orgasms and I learned a lot from it. But what and I and I really want to share that journey with everyone so that other people can do it. What and I and I really want to share that journey with everyone so that other people can do it and and discover the same things as me.
Speaker 1:But I feel like I need to give you guys that like, teach you how to like really get into daily masturbation without hitting the stumbling blocks I did like boredom boredom, oh boredom oh boredom okay, you know right off the bat, like three days in, four days and five days in of like just rubbing your clit gets you're like what, what the fuck? So you gotta like you know, yeah. So I want to explore and I want to document so that maybe in 2026, I can share like a how-to, big how-to guide with you.
Speaker 2:I love that. A plethora of guidance.
Speaker 1:Yes, I want to really get into my OF page and create how-tos. I have a sexy partner who is going to help me by modeling Uh, cause, you know, I got to show you how to do something, so I need anatomy to deal with and I have someone who's going to help me with that. So I'm excited about building out OF and really showing some of the things I've learned, especially for pleasuring people with vulvas, oh yeah, and clitorises and G spots and A spots, all the spots, all the spots. So that is going to be a big leap for me, though I've never created content that was that I don't like the word explicit, but it is explicit that like real, you know, like where I'm not having to like dance around what I'm showing you, what to do, and, yeah, I've never videoed myself doing that Well, myself doing that Well. Anyways, whatever, Cheers, cheers.
Speaker 1:So, if you guys are looking for sexy resolutions, though, let's list off some things that they could prioritize as resolutions now. I've done a lot of these resolutions already. So, look, you don't have to do 365 days of orgasms, but you could set the intention to, uh, start out three to five days a week. You are going to create a space for yourself to to masturbate and explore your pleasure.
Speaker 2:Yes. And if you are unable to masturbate I mean there are so many different educators out there who are like sex positive, body positive, Like you can just even do some research and start expanding your mind around the way to pleasure yourself, the way to experience pleasure, the way to manage pleasure with another partner. So, even if you're not touching yourself, you can do the research about touching yourself in the future or touching someone else. Reaching out and touching someone else, that's right.
Speaker 1:Touching. Touching is great. I forgot one of my resolutions for this year. I am going to start taking levers. I am no longer in my healing era. We've talked about this.
Speaker 2:It was exciting I'm no longer in my healing era folks.
Speaker 1:I mean, I think like the healing era of life is always it's an ongoing thing, right, it's an ongoing journey. Most of us have trauma, whether it was like generational trauma you were just born with written into your DNA, or it happened in your youth or whatever, and so healing, the healing journey, is sort of ongoing. But there are times when it's just like that is what your whole life is about, because you are in such a crusty, awful place, right? I also think we get stuck in always being on a healing journey, which I think can be problematic at times. Sometimes it has to be like, yeah, there's part of my life that's still like maintaining that, working on the healing, but it's not taking center stage. And for me, my healing journey has taken center stage for the last year.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I mean, wouldn't you agree? You've been here for the last year or so.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah, but I mean it was kind of a profound thing for you to have to go through. So I mean it makes sense that it was taking up that much bandwidth.
Speaker 1:It was taking up all the bandwidth, yeah, but now I'm in a place, wouldn't you agree?
Speaker 2:Yes absolutely.
Speaker 1:I mean, I'm always going to be healing a little bit, but I'm in the period of my life now where I am thriving. I think I'm pretty much thriving, right? Yeah, gosh, I would say so. Next couple of months is going to be amazing, I know.
Speaker 2:Compare you now with you two years ago, Would you say. If you could look at you now, you'd say I'm thriving.
Speaker 1:I do. Yes, I would absolutely say I'm thriving and this last year I've shared on this podcast a lot. I haven't had a man in my bed here in my personal space. I have not had serious relationships. I dabbled in some crazy shit earlier this year. That was like instantly no. In some crazy shit earlier this year, though, that's like instantly no. I also like again, I'm not really, uh, in a place of wanting a relationship, but I am interested, meaning a relationship that requires, like, heavy commitments or envisioning a future together or you know all that stuff. But I am interested in taking lovers, yeah, people who value me.
Speaker 2:They maybe need to worship me that's a fair request, do you think so. Yeah, yeah, I'm sure there are plenty of people out there who would love to.
Speaker 1:I think there's probably at least a couple, and that's what I'm going to do this year. I am going to enjoy lovers and be comfortable with lovers and have some really sexy encounters and fulfill fantasies and just be in this juicy, fun part of life, pleasure-filled part of life, incredible-filled part of life Incredible. That's what I'm doing, guys. That's what I'm moving into.
Speaker 2:All right, we're going to check in in a year.
Speaker 1:We'll see if I come up with anything. I will be sharing some of those adventures as well, right?
Speaker 2:What about you?
Speaker 1:Where are you with, with everything, with looking for lovers?
Speaker 2:I, too, am moving through a healing era and I feel like, yeah, I'm just kind of exploring this time by myself. I feel like I've jumped from relationship to relationship for like many many decades and now I need to figure out some things. So, yeah, I'm definitely moving through.
Speaker 1:That gonna be my own lover, so not taking lovers at this time. No, no, she's not there the position has been filled fair.
Speaker 2:I think that's great and I think more people should do that like be your own lover until you're like all right, all right, you, you can you can come over here I'll allow you to be the icing on my cake I will allow you, allow you to be the icing on my cake.
Speaker 1:I love that. That's how I'm gonna look at it and maybe that's what I'll even say once. Once it's like all right, I will allow you to be nice. Yeah, so I'm going to take lovers. She's going to be her own lover. You are going to try and masturbate a couple times a week, and that's not it. You are going to, if you're already doing that, but you want to explore more.
Speaker 1:I think another great thing that someone could decide to use as a resolution is sensation exploration and discovery. Like if you're someone that's like, yeah, I mean, I have sex, it's fun, but it's not exciting. You know, it's gotten kind of boring and old, but you're like. But I'm not a BDSM person, I'm not ready for that. You could always just dip your toe in the water by trying some sensation play, exploring different sensations. Maybe set one aside a week or a month to like start with, I want to explore light feathery, sensual touches, and you could spend a whole month using different objects. Have, if you're in a partnership, having her or him join you and like you lay in bed and she like just does like soft feathery touches here, there, you know wherever you want to do it. Uh, then you could try. You know more scratchy sensations you could use different. I don't look at you.
Speaker 1:That gave me goosebumps, I know we know where she tends to her.
Speaker 1:But sensation play. You could spend a whole year really exploring different sensations and figuring out what turns you on and trying them on different parts of your body. Out what turns you on and trying them on different parts of your body. We're talking heat, cold, feathery sensations like wet sensations, sticky sensations. You know what's so funny? You're sticky. Yeah, I have so.
Speaker 1:For Christmas my daughter got me this Kylie Jenner lip lip. So beautiful it's on right now. I actually like it. But it the other night we were out and we were going to kiss each other for fun Fancy is, because we're friends that do that sometimes. Right, we can talk about that, yeah, sometimes. And we were going to kiss each other for fun funsies, because we're friends that do that sometimes. Right, we can talk about that sometimes. But before we went to kiss, I was like my lips are so sticky though. They are so sticky, it's sticky. And what I learned? See, look all the experience I had. I never once did I realize that sticky lips not my thing. She was very cool about it. She kissed me anyways and she was like I mean, I'm all for a new experience.
Speaker 1:She kissed me. Anyways, she's like it's all right, it will wear off. I'm like all right.
Speaker 2:A shiny lip lip, a matte lip, a sticky lip this is supposed to be a matte lip.
Speaker 1:See how it's not shiny, can you guys tell? But it is. When you first put it on for a while it's like sticky it sticks to things which could be sexy for somebody could be a great sensation for someone.
Speaker 1:So that's a sensation that I explored with carrie and we both agreed was you were more okay with me, it was fine. Sticky lips yes, it was fine. I, we did learn other things in 2024. Yes, we did so. For instance, before you assume a lover wants you to wear a butt plug all night leading up to seeing them make sure that's what they really really want, yeah, yeah, yes, yes, do not double check that text.
Speaker 1:Everybody double check the text. If you think a lover has said to you not a lover, someone you're going to have sex with has said to you that they want you to wear your butt plug to a date, double check that text because oftentimes we skim over things and let's say, especially if you're not really into things like butt plugs or anything up your butt like some people aren't, some people don't like, don't particularly like things up their butt. Now, we all know I like some stuff up my butt sometimes but some people don't. So triple check that text because you may not even need that, that butt plug at all, all night At all.
Speaker 2:All that prep you did.
Speaker 1:I mean a cautionary tale, I'd say oh guys, yeah, these things happen. So pay close attention. When someone is like you're planning on getting together and you're trying to make a fantasy come true, read. The fine detail is what we're saying, or you might end up shoving something up your ass that doesn't need to be there. But then you have a good friend who offers you a little wet wipe. A little wet wipe.
Speaker 2:You always need a good friend with a nice wet wipe.
Speaker 1:No, Nice peach balanced wet wipe, that would be me. Come to me for the removal process just don't I need another wipe all right.
Speaker 1:Where the fuck are we going with this, in conclusion? In conclusion, look, there are a lot of different things you can do for new year's uh resolutions. We've given you a couple of ideas, but there are plenty. Like, if you're vanilla and you're wanting to get a little spicy, try a little spanking. You can start with a soft, soft little, like the little slap that happens during sex, and just experiment there.
Speaker 1:You can experiment with being turned over a bed and just like spanked a little bit with a hand. You know, you can ramp it up and try a little paddle next a little flogger, next even like get turned over someone's knee. That would be hot. That could be hot. Then, eventually, you can ramp that up to a butt plug in while getting spanked. Make sure, though, before you do that, that the plan is to have the butt plug in Best lead plans, so you can like. Here are simple things you can do to spice things up. Want to try some butt play? Start with a finger, maybe the little one to start, then the bigger one, then like a little little vibrating butt thing then a bigger butt plug, and one day you'll be able to graduate to a giant.
Speaker 2:Okay, maybe just bigger things, just Just bigger things, right yeah?
Speaker 1:Experiment. Come up with some experiment resolutions, right? That's what we are suggesting to you. But mostly, what I want you to take away from this podcast is that this was done on the fly and we just wanted to talk about what we learned last year and what we're doing in the future, and all of my resolutions and carries have to do with self-love and self-growth and pleasure and prioritizing those things, and everyone should invest more in themselves. We live in a society that tells you not to do that and to invest in other people and to invest away from yourself and to give away. That's like your way of growth, right? I am telling you right now, investing in yourself will always pay off. It will pay off not only for you, but for all the people around you and your pocketbook, right? Yes, yes, yeah, there you go. So here's to 2025 being abundant, full of orgasms, intimacy, pleasure, joy, income and community. Yeah, I feel like a lot of good shit's going to happen this year. Now I want you to send your resolution in to me and I will read them off.
Speaker 1:I want to share, at the top of this new year, uh, your resolutions to everybody else. Uh, I would love any resolution, but, in particular, if you have a sex related resolution, send it to me. Send it to Annette at TalkSexWithAnnettecom. Post it below. If you're on my YouTube channel at TalkSexWithAnnette, you can post it below this video. You can go to my speak pipe and send it to me wherever you are. Send me your sexy New Year's resolution and I'm going to combine them and I'm going to read them off here. I'm going to tell you which ones I liked the most, which ones maybe I will take on for myself, which ones turned me on and got me excited, and we will help other people come up with some good resolutions for the next year.
Speaker 2:Right Sounds great It'll be fun.
Speaker 1:I want to know what you're doing.
Speaker 2:Resolutions for the next year?
Speaker 1:Right, sounds great, it'll be fun, I want to know what you're doing to yourself this next year. Let me know, all right. So remember, if you are listening to this podcast right now, you can go to my YouTube channel. You can watch it, you can see our beautiful faces, and that's at TalkSexWithAnette. You can join me on my Spicy site, my OF. I've kept that subscription level so low so that pretty much anyone can join. And if you need an intimacy coach to be your partner, your sidekick, your wing woman, your wing woman on your own self-pleasure journey, who could be better than me? My books are open. Book with me Ready, ready to head into the new year, ready, all right.
Speaker 1:All right Cheers Ring loop.