15 SEX ESSENTIALS FOR YOUR HO-ON-THE-GO BAG! (Your Sex Travel Kit)

 Ever wondered what essentials you need for those spontaneous intimate moments? In this episode of Locker Room Talk and Shots, I, Annette Benedetti, reveal the secrets to building your very own "hoe on the go" bag—packed with everything from extra underwear and lube to playful toys and personal hygiene must-haves. Whether you're off on a weekend getaway or out for a night of excitement, these tips ensure you're always ready for passion-filled encounters. Plus, I introduce my new O F page, a space for exclusive content like audio erotica, guided meditations, and real-time interaction to enhance your sex life. Get ready to spice things up and never miss a moment!

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Chapters

• 0:00 Masturbation Monday
• 5:14 Essential Items for Intimacy Bag
• 13:05 Intimacy Essentials for on-the-Go

Transcript

Speaker 1: 0:44

do the sex. Welcome to Masturbation Monday with me, annette Benedetti, your host for Locker Room Talk and Chats. This is your invitation to join me for coffee in bed and a candid conversation about the masturbation practice I'm developing to support my mental, physical and emotional health and help manifest my dreams. Masturbation Monday is a guide to self-pleasure, better sex and using the power of the pussy to open new doors to a better life. Today's Masturbation Monday topic is sexy essentials for your hoe on the go bag.

Speaker 1: 1:24

Now it is that time of year. We are traveling, sometimes home to see our family and hoping to hook up with that ex of ours. We are going to see lovers who are out of town. We are going out to Christmas parties where we may be hoping to hook up. So I have put a call out to all of my friends as well In order to put together the sexy essentials you can pop in a bag and take with you, whether it's an overnight trip, you're traveling or you're just going out for the night. So you are ready to have incredible sex, no matter where you are. Now these are sexy essentials that are easy to fit into a small bag, a gym bag. These are not just geared towards women. This is not just a woman's responsibility. Guys, you can have a gym bag in your car, you can have a suitcase if you want to put these in there, but you also can really impress a woman by being prepared not only to take care of your mutual needs and cover the bases there with some typical stuff that's probably popping in mind, but to go the extra mile in order to be ready to please her and take care of her needs that typically pop up during sex.

Speaker 1: 2:33

Now, before I dive in, I want to let you all know, as a creator who is covering sexual wellness, sexuality, all things kinky, all things juicy that help improve your sex life, you can imagine I struggle to get content up and not have it taken down or be penalized, whether it's on a podcast outlet or YouTube or anywhere else, and so I have decided to embark on a new platform where I can not only include some of the content that makes it appear and does not get taken down, but I can do more in-depth videos. I can share my own personal stories. I am going to be providing audio erotica, guided meditations for your self-pleasure, to help you explore your own sex life, explore your sex life with your partner, and I have tried many platforms over the last three years and I finally landed on the only one that would allow me to do what I want, how I wanted to, without having to worry about it being taken down or shutting down entire accounts. So I am launching my first OF page. Well, it's live right now, but I will be adding content over the next couple of days and weeks and I will be giving a discount to my first subscribers. The subscription rate is really low it's $6 a month. So if you want to join me there, know that whatever you're seeing here I will dive into so much more deeply. You will be getting more content, better content. I won't have to edit everything I say when you want those instructionals to be more instructive. That is going to be happening there, and I'm also going to be providing you with tools that will truly help improve your intimate life. This platform is also going to give me the opportunity to answer your questions more in real time and more directly, because many of your questions I cannot answer on this platform or I will receive a strike and lose my count. This is a message to my YouTube subscribers, but to my audio podcast listeners, I hope you'll also join me there. You send me lots of questions as well and, again, I'm very limited in how I can address them on any of these other platforms. So I hope you'll join me there and we'll have an opportunity to get to know each other better. You can find me at OF, and my name there is the same as it is everywhere else TalkSexWithAnette. I am going to be putting a link below in the show notes. You can hit that link and come over and check me out. But for now, guys, let's dive into my hoe on the go bag Cheers. So I'm just going to dive in.

Speaker 1: 5:14

Number one on my list is always have an extra pair of underwear. This is for people of all genders. There is nothing sexier or more uncomfortable than wearing a pair of underwear that well got a little wet during the excited moments of your life, whether you are a woman or a man or a non-binary person. Putting back on those underwear that got messy during your play is incredibly unsexy, and also you just want to feel fresh and rejuvenated after your sex session with whoever you go home with Next is not going to surprise you at all.

Speaker 1: 5:52

My number two is, as I say, always bring lube. Now there are so many different types of lube. I always pack a basic water-based lube, but depending on what kind of play you're going to be getting into if this is a partner you know well and you know you're going to be getting into some anal play you're going to want to have a gel-based, silicone-based lube. You can get. This is a water and silicone-based lube, so it's just a little bit thicker, which allows for it to last longer. I also love I get sometimes these little packets. When you buy your sex toys, you often get these little packets of lube. It's a great place to stick those packets in case of an emergency. These have definitely saved me. You just pop them in that hoe on the go bag. But make sure you have lube. If you don't bring lube, it really it is one of the number one signs that you are not a skilled lover, regardless of gender. Bad sign Number three specifically for the girls and guys with long hair, I am going to suggest a rubber band to pull back your hair or a hair clip.

Speaker 1: 7:01

Now, this could be important during oral adventures, or, you know, if you're like me and you have long locks, sometimes they get in the way. And the last thing I want to do, if I have washed my hair that morning, is to have to do it that night. Also, if you are like me, you like to shower off after intimacy and you may not want to get your hair wet or wash it, so you're going to want to use the clip to pull your hair back. It's just an obvious essential, if you ask me. The next item on my list and this really does go for anybody of any gender is bring a toy, a simple toy. Show your partner that you are aware that her needs, especially if you're a penis owner or a man, sometimes are easier and better met if you add a little vibration Now you're a penis owner or a man sometimes are easier and better met if you add a little vibration Now. So for a penis owner, a great toy might be a vibrating cock ring to wear after you guys have played for a while and give her a little. Give her a little extra. You know something, during the play session, a sex session that is my new thing.

Speaker 1: 8:07

This is a wand that I like to stick in my bag. It's the one wand you can get it at good vibescom. You can get it for 10 off with my code. She explores gv. Um, but it's perfect for sticking in my bag. It's got a nice medium rumbly sensation, fits perfectly in. I just keep that. Guys, you want to check that wand out? Do that. I also love to have a. If you have watched my reviews, this is the clit sucking part of the new OG3 from tracysdogcom. Tr. Tracy's dogcom put out this incredible dual vibe that comes apart. This is the clit sucking part and if you guys have watched any of my reviews, you know that I love this technology and this part is perfect, fits right on my finger, um. So this is a toy that I love to keep in my bag. Um, when it's at home I put the whole thing together, but seeing as I don't need necessarily the insertable part when I'm out or with a lever, this part does suffice and is perfect. It fits right in my bag.

Speaker 1: 9:20

Now, I'm not saying you have to have multiple toys. I'm just giving you some ideas for toys to pack in your bag when you are on the go. So bring a toy, regardless of the gender, something a little fun to mix it up, to show your lover that, hey, even if we're just having a quickie, it can be quick and exciting. So the next thing that is absolutely important Now, I always say that women and people with vulvas should have these, just in case, but I do think this is on a man's must-have list have condoms on hand. You are responsible for bringing condoms and bringing lube, at the very least, but, ladies, I also suggest you bring some, and I suggest the skin brand. This is the best brand's, all natural. If you have any latex allergies or issues or you're reactive to latex, this, this is the brand for you. It feels good, it doesn't have a terrible odor to it and, um, if you are sensitive, you are not going to be reactive to it. So, condoms, condoms, protection make sure you have it with you, because there's nothing that is going to kill the mood quicker than not having protection on hand. It's going to stress out the whole situation.

Speaker 1: 10:44

The next item I want to cover is deodorant. Deodorant I suggest having the travel sized version of this, especially if you don't have a big bag. You just get a little travel size version of it. If you have a bigger bag, pack the full size version. There's nothing that kills the mood more than really bad BO. Hygiene is super important. Your partner will thank you for this one.

Speaker 1: 11:10

My next item, which was unanimously voted for by the women in my group, is to have gum on hand and or mouthwash, if you want to get one of those little travel size toothbrush and floss kits and pop it in the bag. Not a bad idea. Bad breath will kill your opportunity for great intimacy at the first kiss. So make sure to have mouthwash or gum on hand at all times. Now, guys and girls, if you really really want to impress your partner one of my favorite things to have on me at all time for myself, for a partner, for a partner, for a friend, I don't care ph balanced wipes right. They're good to have, not only in the bathroom for post making love cleanup, because of course we don't want our partners to get utis or anything else that's going to disrupt their pH. But it's also nice if you are having an extended night of play and you want to make sure that, especially if any of your play includes anal touching or penetration that goes back to vaginal and oral and all that stuff. Being able to kind of clean up in between play sessions keeps things more sanitary. Ph balanced ensures that no one's going to be feeling bad the next morning or the next day I will put together a whole list of my favorite pH balanced wipes for, specifically, people with vulvas and women, but also for the people who love them and want to have sex with them. The next item that came up that I said. This again goes for all genders.

Speaker 1: 13:05

It's always nice to have a little bottle of travel sized cologne to freshen up. So let's say, you've been at the bar and hanging out all night. Maybe people have been been smoking around, maybe it's a greasy bar and you smell a little bit like grease. You're going to go back to the bedroom to get sexy. A little spritz to freshen up and maybe clear out those other odors and set the mood. Little little bottle of clone this is, um, I have loves pheromone clone confidence. So men or women can wear it and of course, you can use my special code to get a 15% discount. My discount code at I have lovecom is LRT 15 for 15% off. I swear by the. Pheromone clones is all I wear anymore. Even if you have a hard time believing in the fact that it helps you attract people which I guarantee it does it definitely gets you in the sexy, ready to go mood. I love has tons of these little travel size options to all of their colognes and they have clones that are attract her, attract him and attracted them.

Speaker 1: 14:16

So, depending on your goals for the night, have this in your bag. It is a must have Something a little more practical. That came up is having a portable charger. Now you don't have to have one that's this big and this long, but you know, I think this is just a safety piece for anybody who is on the road or staying with a new lover or on a first date where they think it might turn into a spicy first date. Make sure your stuff is charged and if you lose charge, you've got a charger in the back. Also, this will serve to charge any toys that you maybe deplete during the night.

Speaker 1: 14:51

Next, kind of two similar one or the other or both things that you can pack. That guarantee to make your evening together even more exciting and fit perfectly into any bag, our little satin eye mask and even better than an eye mask would be a satin scarf or belt that you can tie around the eyes or use to, you know, tie up a willing partner. So if you want to go from a little vanilla to a tiny bit spicy and make things extra exciting. Just you know, have those in there. Now some final items that might be situational. Not everyone needs to bring them, but if you are someone who is a squirter or you are someone who likes to try to make your partner squirt, I suggest getting a sports sheet, having an extra towel there, just for your partner's comfort. Um, but if you really have a partner who squirts a lot or you're someone who happens to squirt or gush a lot, for your own peace of mind, so you're not self-conscious when you're with your partner and you feel uptight and like you can't really let go and get into it, there are splash pads out there, sports sheets put out, some great ones that are small enough that you can fit right into your bag and bring with you.

Speaker 1: 16:12

Now I'm going to add what I would call my sexy extras. First of all, something I love to have in my go bag is a little tiny toy bag. It's a bag inside a bag. If you will, and you can get these all over the place, I will put together a full article on some of my favorite tiny little sex toy bags, but these actually allow you to pack a few more toys, especially if you're someone who likes to get really creative, but I am a very creative lover. I like to have options depending on the mood and sometimes how I think intimacy might go at the beginning of the night shifts and changes as the date goes on or our time together goes on. So I love to have a bag like this. It actually allows me to put my lube in it and then my chosen toy for the night.

Speaker 1: 17:04

But some toys that I think are fun to always have on hand and you cannot go wrong with these are also available at Good Vibes. I mean, who doesn't? Just in case, a little butt play? And look, you all can say that that is going beyond vanilla play, but I don't know. I'm telling you, in the dating world, you guys, the first thing you ask about is anal play. I love these butt plugs. You can get them at Good Vibes and they come in graduating sizes. They're made out of silicone and you can use my code again, sheexploresgv for 10% off. I don't know, if you want to get spicy, bring these along.

Speaker 1: 17:47

Finally, and depending on how creative you are and what kind of play you want to get into, but just in case the mood strikes you, if you are into a little spanking, a little pain, with your pleasure. Why not bring along a small flogger this isn't exactly small, but it does fold up quite nicely and hides perfectly in my bag or a small paddle and that's only if you think that things might go that direction, or if that is your proclivity. Why not have a little paddle, even if you don't end up using it? Declivity why not have a little paddle, even if you don't end up using it? It could be a little exciting to like. Show it to your partner.

Speaker 1: 18:29

Very last notes, some things you might want to stick in if you have the time are a small water bottle and some snacks little snacks, maybe a little dark chocolate, maybe a little granola bar. If you have these things in a bag in your car or in your closet and you get that call you've been waiting for, or you're on the road visiting mom and dad and you've got your special purse off in the corner, you are going to be ready. You're going to be ready to be sexy and to have that dream experience you've been hoping would happen for years. If you're back visiting mom and dad and again that ex shows up or that guy from high school who now sees how hot you are, shows up, you're going to be ready for him and hopefully he's as knowledgeable as you are and it doesn't scare him off when you show up prepared for amazing sex. Again, this, this is a bag full of essentials for people of every gender. Now, if you think of things that I missed that should go in this bag, or you have an opinion on what I have put together for your travel bag, your sex experience bag, your sex essentials bag, please let me know. I'd love to hear what you guys would put in your sex on the go bag. So there it is. You are prepared for the holidays, for vacation, for that out of the blue call to meet up with somebody you've been dying to meet up with. Let me know how it works out for you.

Speaker 1: 19:59

If you have any questions or comments, you know how to get ahold of me. You can email me at Annette at TalkSexWithAnnettecom. You can scroll down and leave a voicemail on my speak pipe below. If you want to find out more about my intimacy coaching services and you'd love to have me as your wing woman on your own personal pleasure journey, go to TalkSexWithAnnettecom. You can find out all about my services there and you can get ahold of me there. You can find out all about my services there and you can get ahold of me there. And if you want to tune in for a more in-depth and intimate experience with me, head over to my new page and you will find me there at Talk Sex with Annette. I look forward to seeing you there. Until next time, folks, I'll see you in the locker room. Cheers.