23 Listener Kink Confessions! Socks, Clowns & Armpits Oh My!

 In this episode, we’re diving deep into the kinkiest corners of your imaginations! After the overwhelming response to my last episode on the top 10 kinks, so many of you slid into my inbox with confessions that were too wild, too unique, and too intriguing not to share. From latex and smoking fetishes to sensory deprivation and some seriously unexpected twists, I’m reading your listener-submitted kinks and breaking them down with a little humor and a lot of curiosity. Buckle up, because this journey into your fantasies might just surprise you—and maybe even inspire you to explore a few new ones yourself!

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Chapters

• 0:00 Exploring Listener-Submitted Kinks and Fetishes
• 8:14 Exploring Diverse Kinks and Fetishes
• 19:33 Exploring Unique Sexual Preferences

Transcript

Speaker 1: 0:44

do the sex. Welcome to Masturbation Monday with me, annette Benedetti, your host for Locker Room Talk and Chats. This is your invitation to join me for coffee in bed and a candid conversation about the masturbation practice I'm developing to support my mental, physical and emotional health and help manifest my dreams. Masturbation Monday is a guide to self-pleasure, better sex and using the power of the pussy to open new doors to a better life. Today's Masturbation Monday topic is inspired by you, dear listeners. Perhaps you remember, about a month ago I dropped a episode called the Top 10 Kinks and let's just say, you guys did not hold back. In my DMs. You flooded me with your own stories, questions, comments, secret confessions, if you will, and I loved every minute of it. In fact, I got so many submissions that I thought it only fair to do a follow-up. So today we are diving in to listener-submitted kinks, fetishes and maybe some little sexy cravings. So buckle up, let's get ready to dive in. It's going to be an interesting ride, cheers. So I've got all of your kinks confessions right here in my phone, so I am going to go down the line and read them off and, of course, add my own take, because, well, why else would I be here. If you are watching this episode on my YouTube channel at Talk Sex with Annette, feel free to continue the conversation by dropping your comments in the comment section below this video. Of course, if you are a longtime audio listener who's driving home or sneaking off to the back bedroom to listen, feel free to send me an email at Annette at TalkSexWithAnettecom, or, you know, you can send me a sexy little voicemail. You scroll down. You're going to find a speak pipe link below. You can send me a sexy little voicemail. You scroll down. You're going to find a SpeakPipe link below. You can send me your confession and I will listen to it. And, who knows, maybe it will end up on one of my episodes in the future. So diving right in Now.

Speaker 1: 3:01

I did get several people commenting on the same kink that I didn't cover, so I will, of course, mention when there was more than one of you who commented on a specific kink. So let's dive right in with my first submission from a Bradley W4747. He says my guess for number 10 would have been latex, the latex kink. Now I did cover latex and leather fetish in my fetish episode. Now you're going to have to go back and listen to my fetish episode and my kink episode.

Speaker 1: 3:35

I do explain the difference between the two, the similarities between the two. Sometimes a kink is a fetish, sometimes a fetish is a kink, but not always. So here was a crossover. But for those of you who are not familiar, both the latex and the leather kink it's all about the sleek, shiny, allure, the feeling of the material. It's linked to sensations. It's linked to, oftentimes, power play, but people love the way it feels, either on themselves or on the person that they may or may not be doming or playing with. So there is a latex and a leather fetish. I'll tell you what I don't hate a leather cockering. They are makes me get a little kinky. Makes me get a little kinky.

Speaker 1: 4:30

Number two Ethan Dang 12, these names says I figured a water sports would have been high on that list. Water sports, golden showers. Many, many, many of you dropped into my DMs and commented on the fact that you were surprised that I had not covered that in the kinks. Absolutely Golden showers being having a partner either urinate on you or urinating on them. You know, one of President Trump's little kinks himself is very popular in fact. And water spores, aka golden showers, involve urination as part of sexual play and can be symbolized as trust, control, submission and or domination. So let's just be real. Sex is messy. It's messy, it comes with a lot of body fluids and some people just like to throw in a good golden shower every now and then, and I did not cover it in my kink episode, but I have covered it in past episodes and I will be sure to dive into golden showers in the future, because it's very clear to me that many of you are curious about them.

Speaker 1: 5:44

Number three Wimpy Gampy says I like a woman who doesn't shave their armpits. And actually there were a couple of people who commented on this kink, and this is an actual kink with its own name. The name of this kink is called and I don't know if I'm saying this correct Hirsute H-I-R-S-U-T-E. It'sa fetish about celebrating natural body hair and rejecting societal grooming standards, and for some people that's a hardcore turn on. Who knew?

Speaker 1: 6:27

Number four Jedi Knight 4JC says I get turned on by attractive women who smoke and or vape. Now I have to admit I had never thought about this as a kink. I think well, almost anything can be turned into a kink, but it is in fact a kink that a lot of people have. The smoking kink connects arousal to the visual and sensual aspects of smoking, which makes sense in a lot of ways If you think about the long, slender cigarette between two lipstick lips sucking on the tip. Think about the smoke curling around the neck, around the face, up the cheeks. I can see it. I can see it. So there you are. There is a kink for those of you who like to watch a woman put something long and thin between her lips.

Speaker 1: 7:20

Number five, geomcc39, says what about being smothered by an SSBBW woman? That is, a supersized, big, beautiful woman? That is definitely a kink. There are people of all genders who love the idea of being smothered and loved on and loving and worshiping the body of a big, beautiful, sexy woman. This kink involves body worship and the sensual pleasure of being overwhelmed by a partner's body. So that is the smothering part is just being overwhelmed and overtaken by your partner's body and of course this can take place in all different body types, but some people in particular just love it when a juicy, curvy, beautiful woman is the smotherer.

Speaker 1: 8:14

Number six, danny Landers, k7z, says queening. So for those of you who don't know what queening is, queening is known also as face sitting. It involves a dominant partner, typically a woman, sitting on her partner's face for oral pleasure, the face being the queen's throne. Do I need to explain that more to you, or do we got it? I feel like we could dedicate a whole episode to that. In fact, for those of you who are familiar with dominatrix Lucy, she is quite the queen.

Speaker 1: 8:50

Number seven was submitted by Mac TEP2K. He says female body piercings and hidden tattoos are my thing. I totally, I totally get you, I totally get you. Sexy, sexy, sexy. Piercings and tattoo fetishes are truly a thing. They celebrate the erotic appeal of body art and adornment. And then it's also the thrill of finding the sexy little secret as you unwrap a body from its clothing and finding a piercing or finding a tattoo hidden in places that are typically covered. Some people find this incredibly erotic and arousing.

Speaker 1: 9:31

Number eight Gino5169 says I want to try tying my wife up and using blindfolds. So bondage. We did talk about BDSM on our 10 top kinks. Now someone had left a comment about like isn't that just an umbrella term? And it is true. Bdsm is really an umbrella for a whole bunch of different little kinks that you can break it down into, in particular the tying up, the restraining, the sensory deprivation can be very, very exciting for people to not only not be able to tell what's coming next, whether you are blindfolded, some people will even put something over the ears so the person can't hear, and then restrain on top of it. Not only do you not know what sensation is coming next or what the sensation you're experiencing is, but you also have no control over what is happening to you because you are bound. Of course, this is all done within a framework of consent. So, yeah, that's sexy and I hope, gino, that you and your wife get to give it a try. I highly recommend it.

Speaker 1: 10:43

Number nine Ian Erickson4598 says I imagine my partner fantasizing about someone else. As I recall, I had a couple of these and there was one submission that was very in-depth where he fantasized about his partner or the partner he would have being into a famous person and having sex with the same famous person. But this is very much in line with a cuckholding kink, and cuckholding fantasies center on the idea of a partner finding pleasure with someone else. This is often, as a power exchange, dynamic and it also includes elements of compersion. I've done a whole podcast on compersion, where one partner really is aroused by seeing another partner's pleasure. It also ties into it a little bit of the humiliation fetish or kink where those feelings of embarrassment or being discarded by your partner for some reason add to the excitement and arousal. So this particular kink really brings in a lot of aspects of other kinks that can again be offshoots.

Speaker 1: 11:54

Number 10, dennis Kennedy Jr, 9128, says navel fetish isn't on the list. Intriguing, intriguing indeed. Now he referred to a fetish. We're talking about kinks. Again, kinks can be fetishes, so we're using them a little bit interchangeably here and I think that that's okay because really we're just talking about kinks, fetishes, interests, sexy little things that we're all into because it's fun and it's what I want to do today and it's my podcast. So I did find it intriguing because in all the years I've been doing this podcast the navel fetish hasn't come up, which I think is kind of surprising because I imagine it is quite common. It's just not one that's entered my reality over the last three years.

Speaker 1: 12:40

Now. This fetish can be something someone enjoys meaning having their own navel played with. Meaning having their own navel played with. Oftentimes, touching of the navel, playing with the navel, stimulates sensations in the genital region, but sometimes people have the kink of being attracted to someone's navel, innie or outtie. Some people really love the outties and playing with them. Naveletish focuses on the erotic potential of belly buttons as a sensual touch point. So that can be receiving, that can be giving. Some people are so sensitive in that area that it's almost torture. So you can bring in a little bit of BDSM as well, depending on what you're into.

Speaker 1: 13:24

Number 11, preamble Patriot shouts out with an exclamation point panties, and certainly panties, are a kink, and a lot of people actually commented on panties. They were surprised that panties were not mentioned. So panties the kink that goes along with the panty kink oftentimes centers around the material. It can be silky, it can be lacy, and this can either be a visual stimulation that turns someone on seeing it on someone else, or it can be actually wearing the panties themselves and how it feels on them. Oftentimes men or people with penises like to wear panties for the sensation. Also, the taboo nature of wearing a woman's panty can really get them off as well. So there's a lot of different directions. You can go with the panty fetish. It's a super fun one and it can take you into role play, sensation, play you name it. It's an easy, I guess, erotic toy or fixture that you can bring to your sex life.

Speaker 1: 14:32

Life's Too Short for BS73, I love that name says oil and anal isn't on this list. I hate to disappoint you, and life is too short to not enjoy a little oil in your anal play. I prefer a gel-based lube, but, yes, oil play enhances touch and sensation, often combined with anal exploration for heightened sensation. Buddy, I am right there with you. I think anal play is a kink for a lot of people. Please don't, don't, don't engage in it dry. So a good body oil, massage oil, of course, ph safe for women and people with vaginas, because we don't need to have any random oil put down there. If you're going to put it on the anus, it's most likely going to get into our genital area. So again, another option is a really silky, smooth, high quality gel for anal play.

Speaker 1: 15:32

Number 13, dan Shoop 6504 says I like sensory deprivation, chastity cages and CBT. Now I have covered. We already talked about the sensory deprivation a little bit, but again here he is combining them. And this is the lovely thing about kinks is they don't have to be standalone. You can have multiple kinks, you can put them all together for a mix and match. You can parse them out individually. I have done a lot of content around cock cages and male chastity. I've also covered CBT, which is cock and ball torture. Please feel free to go back and watch them. I'll try to tag them below so you can check them out as well. And it sounds like in his case what he has done is added the blindfold sensory deprivation with being caged and maybe tortured a little bit. Sounds like fun. I love your creativity and thank you for sharing it. Sounds like fun. I love your creativity and thank you for sharing.

Speaker 1: 17:30

Number 14, james Harrington 4923 says pantyhose and tights and stockings. Pantyhose, tights and stockings. I love this. So again we're back to the material. Some people like have the pantyhose kink and it's really related to the constructive nature of the pantyhose on the body. Now the pantyhose kink can be something visually you like to see on somebody of any gender and it could have to do with how the material looks against the skin. Or it could be your kink because you like the way it feels when you wear it or when it's wrapped around your body or when you're restrained with it, so you might at first think of it as stockings that are actually on the body. But you can use the pantyhose to restrain someone for some restraint play or to gag them for whatever you want to gag them for. But it centers around again the, the tactile experience, the visual experience, the fabrics and then, of course, however you want to use them.

Speaker 1: 18:33

Number 15 was submitted by oh Sod it. He says silk, panties, suspender belts, chemises, skirts, dresses. So he likes the outfits. I guess I'm assuming it's he. I should say they. I don't know. I'm sure there are plenty of women who like to see another woman in all these things too, or another man. Again, we're getting into what it looks like, what it feels like to wear these things. Garter belts are sexy, I feel you. This is more of a lingerie kink and this is a pretty clearly common, maybe even vanilla kink, if you will, since so many people love to invest in lingerie. I love it, I love the way it makes me feel, I like the state of mind it gets me into. Depending on what I'm wearing, I can feel sexy, I can feel like a baby doll, I can feel like a vixen or a femdom. So there's a lot of role play that is tied into the fabric sensation and visual titillation, if you will.

Speaker 1: 19:34

Number 16 was submitted by Michael Ross X9H and I like this one. He says socks during sex increase orgasms. He went into more depth about the whole sock sensation. Now I'm sure many of you have heard that there are a lot of women who like to leave their socks on, and the idea is it keeps them warm and it makes them feel more capable of orgasming. I think I might have the opposite of this. I feel strange if my socks are not off, but we won't get into my sexual proclivities. We're talking about yours. So wearing socks during intimacy can enhance comfort and relaxation, which may lead to stronger orgasm. So get yourself some cute, sexy socks and see how your partner feels about you leaving them on the next time you're in bed or wherever you are when you're doing it.

Speaker 1: 20:30

Number 17, andrew Dallas offers up eating one's own cum. This is truly a thing. This kink known as autophagia involves consuming one's own bodily fluids as part of a power or humiliation dynamic. So there you have it. It plays into some of that BDSM power dynamic, maybe a little bit into the humiliation kink Again. I've got a whole video on that. So that's the thing. That's the thing you can do. Some people enjoy doing it first by releasing onto someone's body and then licking it off of their body. Some people enjoy doing it by after having sex and coming inside someone going down on them. There are a lot of different ways this plays out, from the ultra kinky to the fairly vanilla oral sex after sex, which is not an uncommon thing to do. Sex, which is not an uncommon thing to do.

Speaker 1: 21:33

And then, number 18, I had a surprising number of you DM me and say that you enjoy giving yourself oral sex. Now, these were all men, I don't know. I'm sure that there are women out there that have that kind of flexibility. I did not hear from them, but apparently several men out there are super flexible and able to give themselves oral sex and I imagine that it's a nice alternative to giving yourself a handjob and it has a very similar feel to it that the autophagia does, where you have the power, dynamic and you have the indulging in your own bodily fluid experience. So thank you for sharing that. Also, keep going to yoga class, man, because I'm sure there are many, many people out there who would love to be able to give themselves oral pleasure if they could Now before I sign off, because I had so many complaints about my small list of kinks in my first episode, I thought I would add in a couple that I ran across that I found interesting.

Speaker 1: 22:43

Maybe some of you are familiar with them. If you are, please feel free to hop in my DMs or drop your comments below. So let's dive in First. Let's jump in with breath play. So it is the erotic thrill of controlling or limiting oxygen, creating heightened sensations and intense arousal. So this can be just covering someone's mouth and nose and releasing and giving them air when you're ready to give it to them or they're giving you your signal, obviously, sometimes people use breath restrictions such as choking. This can be a very dangerous kink and it's very important that you know what you're doing, when you're doing it, that you have consent, that you have all of the hand signals or the safe words in place so that nobody gets hurt. But it is very common.

Speaker 1: 23:35

The next one is the breeding kink. Now, if you have scrolled through porn any amount at all, you've probably come across this, and it's basically playing out fantasies around the idea of being pregnant, having sex with a pregnant person. For some people they're really turned on by the pregnant body. For others it can be the idea of being bred or people trying to get you pregnant with unprotected sex. This kink really leans into primal urges and for many this is exciting and erotic, and it also can play into when someone's actually pregnant, finding eroticism in being pregnant. There are offshoots of this that involve all sorts of fantasies and maybe we will dive into that at some other point in time. The next one that I find really interesting and I can actually see some eroticism in is the clothed female, naked male. So often a femme dom will be fully clothed and looking sexy and the man will be unclothed and very vulnerable. It's a power dynamic where the clothed woman is in the power dom position and the vulnerable man is naked and, I'm going to assume, does as she says.

Speaker 1: 24:55

The next one that I just had to share with you, mostly because it's definitely going to give me nightmares, is and I don't like to yuck other people's yums, but somebody's got to reach out to me and talk to me about this one. I need to have a conversation with someone about this one it's the clown fetish. It's a clown fetish. It's role-playing, as clown brings a mix of humor and fear and eroticism to play. So basically, you know, either I assume you're the clown dressed up as a clown, or you're someone who is being sexually taken by a clown. I don't know guys. But again, not one to yuck someone's yum, if this is your thing, let's talk, let's talk. The next one is one that I have a personal interest in.

Speaker 1: 25:43

I've played with a little bit, experimented with a little bit, experimented with a little bit, and I have a person who's a professional in this area that I'm hoping to have on soon is the erotic electrostimulation kink, using electrical currents for pleasure, tapping into nerve rich areas for unique sensations. Some people use TENS units, but there are actually some much more sophisticated electrostimulation units out there that professionals can use to give a person all kinds of sensations, from scratchy sensations, which I quite enjoyed, to very zappy sensations, and these can be applied all over the body in different places intimate places, yes, but it is not solely restricted to the overtly erotic genital areas of a person's body, and it is added as sort of a new sensation in the sensory play kink arena. So this is something that could be included in sensory deprivation eyes closed, being restrained. It could be BDSM-y and the zap can be turned up to where it's a little bit painful. Again, I have someone who I've been reaching out to and hopefully sooner rather than later she will come on my show and tell you all about it.

Speaker 1: 27:07

And last but not least, we have the tickling fetish. So some people derive pleasure from the sensation of being tickled. Again we're back into sensations or tickling others. So again, this is I mean who doesn't like a good like back tickle right or inner thigh or tickle? Or it can be tickling others. Now this can be a pleasure kind of tickle exchange. It could be a torturous tickle exchange because we all know it can feel like torture sometimes. But again we're back into the sensation.

Speaker 1: 27:40

Kinks a different way to be kinky with your partner. This is oftentimes again combined with a sensory deprivation. Kink all about exploring the different sensations our bodies can fill. So there you go, a whole new round of kinks to explore and consider. And thank you to all of you who submitted your kinks, fetishes, fantasies, stories. Keep them coming, no pun intended. And remember there's no shame in your kink game. Just keep it consensual, safe and fun. So until next time, remember you can submit your questions and comments to me by scrolling down and tapping on the speak pipe link below, you can email me at Annette at TalkSexWithAnnettecom. And if you are looking for a sidekick in your pleasure journey, someone to help you along the way, remember my intimacy. Coaching books are open. You can email me to reserve your session. Just email me again at Annette at TalkSexWithAnnettecom, or you can go to my website TalkSexWithAnnettecom and check out my coaching services. I would love to be your new sexy bestie. All right, Until next time, I'll see you in the locker room. No-transcript.