How To Have Amazing Boob Sex (Reboot)

Deanna (AKA Ruby) joins me to talk about how to have boob sex. It was a hot topic in the 80s, but are people still doing it? Turns out Mammory intercourse is a thing. Ruby, known for her giant boobs, happens to be an expert on the topic and walks us through who is doing it, how to do it, and why the hell you'd want to!

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Chapters

• 1:08 Exploring Boob Sex and Titty Fucking
• 13:45 Tips and Tricks for Titty Fucking
• 24:39 Communication and Consent in Sexual Acts
• 34:41 Exploring Sexual Pleasure and Power Dynamics
• 38:51 Exploring Various Sex Positions and Acts

Transcript

Speaker 1: 1:08

Do the sex Think fun, honest and feminist as fuck, and always with the goal of fighting the patriarchy. One female orgasm at a time. Welcome to the locker room. Today's locker room talk topic is boob sex, titty fucking, mammary and trick course. Those are, in fact, all terms used to describe the act of a man sticking his cock between two tits to get off. And you may be asking is this really still a thing? I mean, I think it was popular in the 80s, at least that's for some reason embedded in my mind. We are here to answer that question, and we are also going to be answering the five W's that writers like to use.

Speaker 1: 2:08

I am a writer that the who, what, when, where and why the fuck you'd want to do it Now. Listeners, I have shared many times in the past that I am a relatively small breasted woman, so I have zero experience with titty fucking or boob sex, breast play in such a way that your boobs are used as a flashlight. But fortunately, one of my very best friends in the whole wide world has giant boobs. She's all boobs, in fact. Many times while recording these episodes together, we have had to stop and start over and move her mic around so that it won't bump into her giant breasts. So Ruby, aka Deanna, is here to help us create the Boob Sex 101 podcast for you guys. She is going to walk us through what it's all about and help us understand this particular sex act. So, deanna- yes.

Speaker 1: 3:19

You've been on lots of episodes with me. You have been on what is now, I would say, currently one of our most popular episodes. Which one is that? That would be the semen facials, the semen facials Guys. It is one of my favorite episodes for so many reasons, mostly because of you know just how weird people get about the topic and then, of course, through our podcast, like I got comfortable with it. So if you have not listened to semen facials, you got to go back through our podcast, like I got comfortable with it. Um, so if you have not listened to semen facials, you got to go back through our past episodes and queue it up. I promise you will not be disappointed.

Speaker 2: 3:57

Definitely not a disappointment.

Speaker 1: 3:59

And, believe it or not, it's going to tie into today's podcast, but we'll get there one thing at a time podcast, but we'll get there one thing at a time. Let's raise our glasses, let's talk about sex, let's do it. All right, folks, let's get started. I like to, ahead of these podcasts, I like to be a little sciencey about it, bring some integrity to these conversations. I like to come at you with some facts I got to tell you. Science, scientists, researchers really haven't bothered with boob sex. They just haven't. I mean, I looked and I looked and I looked and, deanna Ruby, you watched me.

Speaker 2: 4:42

I did, I witnessed.

Speaker 1: 4:44

And we found nothing. I mean, I did find a whole bunch of new porn sites that I'm probably going to check out, but but there wasn't a lot of factoids out there and a lot of the articles I tried to read on it were pretty. You know, basic vanilla filling Not not that there is anything wrong with again, we're not vanilla sex shaming, in fact I would say boob sex Vanilla, vanilla. You know, this is definitely. But don't worry for our kinky listeners, we're going to come up with ways to make it kinky for you, do not worry.

Speaker 2: 5:21

Well, I mean actually, I think boob sex is a vanilla kink.

Speaker 1: 5:29

Oh, tell me about vanilla kink.

Speaker 2: 5:31

Well, being part of um the kink community and kind of knowing what vanilla is, I think boob sex is like pretty mellow. For those that are kinksters, that you know are into the kink scene, right. But I think for someone who's vanilla boob sex is kind of a oh, we're going to do that.

Speaker 1: 5:54

Right, right, well, it's a step above, just like basic sex. So this, you're right, it's a great way, for I think, oftentimes, vanilla couples or partners often want to figure out how to spice things up. In fact, we have a podcast on how to spice things up. In fact, we have a podcast on how to spice up your sex life. I don't know if we covered boob sex in it, but this would be like um something. I feel like people who are more comfortable and who enjoy, uh, vanilla sex but want to get a little spice it up. This would be um something you could consider doing right, definitely. Little spice it up. This would be um something you could consider doing right, definitely, and I say that as being someone who's never had it so for me it like I will.

Speaker 1: 6:35

I I will most likely we'll see by the end of the podcast add it to my sex bucket list. Uh, but I'm I'm speaking from no knowledge, guys, just just I'm talking a bunch of shit right now, basically. So let's start. Let's start with um who who is having titty sex?

Speaker 1: 6:55

ruby tell me anyone who wants to all right, but itty bitty titties, that's I guess big titties, can you do this? You can do this with itty bitty titties. You feel like you feel like I'm. I mean, the only place I've ever seen this happen is on porn, and definitely not with itty bitty tittied women.

Speaker 2: 7:15

Well, porn really is kind of like anything on the screen. It's an exaggeration and it's not really reality.

Speaker 1: 7:23

Right, so this act, in case anyone doesn't quite know exactly what it looks like, how we are going to talk about the who is. I mean, it does require a person with boobs and a person then with a cock. Now, I suppose a dildo could be used to do this. I just thought of that and you just clarified it.

Speaker 2: 7:47

I just thought of that and you just terrified it. Someone wearing a strap-on that does not have a penis themselves could definitely have a strap-on on and titty fuck someone. Yeah, because, for those of you who have not dove into the realm of the titty fuck, you have the idea that, um, it's mainly for a man's pleasure. I did have that idea, but it's very pleasurable for a woman, so it is uh, yes, okay, um, as someone who has experience in this topic, uh, yes, I actually have a lot of pleasure.

Speaker 1: 8:33

Do you get titty fucked regularly? Is it part of your regular rotation of sex?

Speaker 2: 8:38

It is not part of my regular rotation, but when it pops out, there it's a special occasion I mean, you know or it's, my partner might say they wanna fuck my tits, and of course yeah, or maybe I'm like oh god, I really want yeah that between my tits.

Speaker 1: 9:01

Yeah, so I guess that's part of the who is who initiates this kind of thing. You're saying that the boob owner, the woman, sometimes asks to be titty fucked.

Speaker 2: 9:14

Yes, I mean, so both parties involved could be the initiators Right.

Speaker 1: 9:21

Okay, all right, I have a hard time picturing that, but maybe I'll understand it. I mean, I don't know. Well, we'll get there. I mean, I don't know well, we'll get there.

Speaker 2: 9:30

I just don't know. I think initially. So let's say it's um the breast owner. Right, it's their first encounter. More than likely it'll probably be suggested by their partner. Or, you know, like yourself, maybe you'll be the initiator after this, because it's going to be on your bucket list.

Speaker 1: 9:55

Yeah, I've already expressed to my partner that I think. I'm going to have to be teddy fucked.

Speaker 2: 10:03

So, even if the breast owner has not had. Maybe they're going to listen today and go. Oh man, that sounds like fun.

Speaker 1: 10:11

Yeah.

Speaker 2: 10:12

And you know. So really, it can be either, or who initiates it.

Speaker 1: 10:16

All right, all right, I I can attest, uh listeners, that I'm probably going to initiate my first experience to you initiating. Yes, we'll have to do a follow-up oh yes, on how it goes. So I want to move on to because some of you may be questioning exactly what are we talking about when it comes to titty. We're calling it titty boob sex.

Speaker 2: 10:43

So, yeah, so it is squeezing the boobs together to create kind of a slit, a slit exactly For there to be penetrated. Yeah, so much like using a flashlight or your butt cheeks, or your butt cheeks right, it just happens to be your boobs. Yes, some boobs do wrap completely yours.

Speaker 1: 11:11

I was gonna say yours, yours, I think swallow a cock hole. So mine do engulf a penis.

Speaker 2: 11:19

Engulf, that's a good word, but there's still pleasure, even if you don't. I mean mean because you can, just everybody can squeeze their titties.

Speaker 1: 11:28

She's sitting here pushing her tits together, as though you all can see.

Speaker 2: 11:32

But only I can see this.

Speaker 1: 11:35

I'm like, I'm like, I can't.

Speaker 2: 11:37

I'm not.

Speaker 1: 11:37

You can, I'm pushing. Oh my God, I could See, I could. I just I just looked down, pushed my tits in. Yeah, I mean, I think I could get it good on two sides of the cock anyways. But what about women who you know? There are women with even smaller breasts than mine. Um, how would they go about creating a canal?

Speaker 2: 12:04

just, I mean, you've got from my experience.

Speaker 1: 12:08

even before my boobs were big, you were titty fucking before your boobs were big, no, but you know okay.

Speaker 2: 12:17

So I don't know. Maybe I massaged mine because I was actually a late bloomer. Everybody Believe it or not. You caught up. I never thought I was going to get boobs and so I had these little like training bra boobs forever until I, until the summer before my sophomore year, and then that summer I by the end of the summer I was a C cup. It hurt like hell but I had read in like 17 magazine or something about massaging your boobs to stimulate growth.

Speaker 1: 12:55

Well, maybe it works. Now, I wish.

Speaker 2: 12:57

I had read that fucking article. So I was like every night I would massage and the flesh is pretty like movable.

Speaker 1: 13:08

The flesh is movable. I would say this too, as I'm visualizing it. Uh, you know, I the cock could like slide against at least that chest area between the two tits, um, all right.

Speaker 1: 13:18

So now we know, uh, the who is doing, what this could actually be. I guess, coming into this conversation, I didn't think about the fact that, yeah, queer women could do it. And we'll get to the why at the end, like, why would a queer woman want to do it? Why would a queer woman want to put a strap on and titty fuck another woman? So we'll get to that conversation. We are going to move on. Deanna, what are some tips and tricks for making this fun and exciting?

Speaker 2: 13:47

Because I've already imagined up some things that I Well. Number one lube is important. Would lotion suffice?

Speaker 1: 13:55

Massage oil- Would be okay, and would that be okay for the cock? They have massage oils that are okay for you. Don't want to dry hump the boobs is what you're saying.

Speaker 2: 14:07

No, because that's going to kind of be a little friction.

Speaker 1: 14:12

Right for both people, right, okay, so you lube up the boobs, mm-hmm, mm-hmm.

Speaker 2: 14:18

Yep, One way to once. You give it a go a time or two. What is really fun is putting in some fellatio with it, Right, so you know, as that penis comes peeking through your peaks, you can lick it, suck it Well.

Speaker 1: 14:45

So I imagine that isn't always possible for all penis boob combinations, or is it?

Speaker 2: 14:50

All right, I'm going to hold on a second.

Speaker 1: 14:52

Guys. I'm going to see if I feel like that is something I don't know. Yeah, I could get there. I wouldn't have to come up very far Right.

Speaker 2: 15:01

I mean, I guess it would depend also on like the position you're in Right.

Speaker 1: 15:10

So of course there's, you could be laying on your back. Yeah, let's skip it, we're going to. We were going to do the positions kind of later on this conversation, but I think it goes well with the tips and tricks. As I'm trying to visualize being titty fuck, my first visualization was me laying on my back, in which case my partner would straddle me. Is that, and I'm like, would that be comfortable for my partner? Is that more difficult is that a? What kind of positions are good?

Speaker 2: 15:34

I mean it's comfortable, I mean they're straddling is, if it's a comfortable thing, um, that'd be sexy.

Speaker 1: 15:42

I do, it is sexy. I do enjoy. One thing I think I've realized in the last year I enjoy looking up at my partner while doing sexual acts or something like. I like the visual stimulation, I like this sort of dominant position and being able to take it all in while things are happening.

Speaker 2: 16:03

And I was going to say, you know, if you like to up the level of things, and maybe you have your hands tied, oh, Because, if he is. But then you can't squeeze your tits together, but he can squeeze them while he is.

Speaker 1: 16:19

Oh, I see, so you could be restrained on a bed. See, now, that takes it. So that takes it. That takes it to another level a bed. See, now, that takes it so that takes it to another level. That takes it from like spicing up your vanilla bedroom life to integrating it into your BDSM kink life.

Speaker 2: 16:35

That's hot. So you know that's the great thing about titty fucks they are good for everybody. Whether you're vanilla or kinky as fuck, you can always titty fuck Alright.

Speaker 1: 16:46

So I will say this, guys, when I was visualizing titty fucking, I'm like, well, how do I get pleasure out of it? I have only believe it, or not? In the last couple of years well, maybe the last year and a half started to really enjoy nipple stimulation, I'm not sure why. So I was like, oh yeah, I could like push my boobs together and stimulate my nipples and that might be super sexy. But then I thought, what about like little nipple clamps on? Putting little nipple clamps on while it's happening?

Speaker 2: 17:21

Or they have vibrating nipple clamps.

Speaker 1: 17:25

I was thinking like suction, maybe using suction. You know there are now suction toys. If you guys are not checking out the links in the description of this podcast, if you aren't very sex toy savvy, uh, you're missing out on an introduction to a lot of cool new toys that are out there. There's a suction technology out there that is great for the clip, but also for the nipples. That could be exciting.

Speaker 2: 17:53

And another trick. I don't know if it'd be a trick or a tip, you know. Let's say you and your partner are maybe sitting on the couch watching a movie Maybe he's really into the movie and you're like, oh man, I'm so fucking horny that happens, it does, and you know, instead of just going down on him, you can maybe go down on him then whip out your tits and start titty fucking him. That's, you would be the initiator and you would be the aggressor and you would be in control.

Speaker 1: 18:29

So he is sitting on the couch, so you just really have to lean over, or?

Speaker 2: 18:36

kneel in front of him well, yeah men really kind of well when a woman kneels in front of them. They're like, oh yeah right.

Speaker 1: 18:45

Yeah, I feel like looking at that, though as a woman with smaller boobs, I'm not sure would that work for me. Could I get?

Speaker 2: 18:51

my boobs in there.

Speaker 1: 18:53

I feel like you're biased because you can just grab your boobs and stretch them and reach them out.

Speaker 2: 18:58

I mean, and it's a good workout too, because you're going to get some squatting in. Yeah, that's true.

Speaker 1: 19:03

Yeah.

Speaker 2: 19:04

I mean, hey, if you can get a workout while you're having some real fun, that's a win. Why?

Speaker 1: 19:12

not. I'm all for that. So that's well, I was thinking another position, but that I don't know. Again, I'm just making these up in my head.

Speaker 2: 19:21

Well, it would be another position.

Speaker 1: 19:22

What is another? Kneeling would be another position, but he would have to squat down.

Speaker 2: 19:28

Or he'd need to be sitting down.

Speaker 1: 19:32

Or you'd need to kneel on like a stool oh, that's kind of hot too Like my ottoman over there. That might put me at the right level, depending again on the height of your partner. So you're going to have to kind of play around with different positions. Are there any boob sex positions that, outside of laying down kneeling, that you can think of?

Speaker 2: 19:59

well, I mean I have had the partner standing and me squatting down and right right um you know. Yeah, I mean it's like, it's like with.

Speaker 1: 20:11

that's a fun thing about sex is there is no real playbook on positions Like you can come up with stuff, I guess kind of in the 69 position If your boobs are bigger and you couldn't be in that position on top and hold your boobs together, cause you gotta have your arms to hold you up. But you could at least like slide your chest over his cock.

Speaker 2: 20:35

Oh, that's true. So you don't always have to be the one squeezing your boobs.

Speaker 1: 20:39

I keep forgetting about that. You're right, they could do that. They could reach down if their arms are long. I'm pretty short, so, yeah, I like that. Or, yeah, the 69 position. You could probably do both ways, like if I'm laying down and they're on top, then they're. No, their balls would be in my face.

Speaker 2: 20:59

They were on top, that's true, I mean, unless you're like a good teabag, you would be teabagged and there would be a butt. Right there You're doing some ball suckling.

Speaker 1: 21:11

Butt play their butt would be right there. Yeah, so I mean you could do that. Anyways, all right, guys, I think you're getting the idea, the positions that this works in, I'm sure your own mind. I mean, I would suggest, and I imagine you concur that the first time, keep it simple.

Speaker 1: 21:29

Yes, you got to figure out how the cock in question works with the tits in question and what works best for you, but I think probably what sounds like it's the most important for women to think about, and I certainly didn't. When I started imagining this conversation, I didn't think about all the things I could do to myself to make sure I was getting pleasure. I want to add to this conversation yes, you could do stimulating your own nipples. Your partner can stimulate your nipples. You can do nipple clamps or apparently there are vibrating suction toys for your nipples, but don't forget there are toys you can actually have inside of your vagina stimulating you while this is going on Yep.

Speaker 1: 22:20

You can have a vibrator inserted or, you know, if he is the one managing your breasts. You can have a suction toy on your clit, or you can have a butt plug in, or you can have. You know, you don't have to just have the boob sex going on. You can get the full body experience by adding toys into this experience, which would, for some people who are into that, heighten the eroticism of the whole thing that it's just added into your play session, you know? Um, so that was something I was thinking. I'm like that would be a sexy thing to do if I had something going on inside of me already, especially if I had one. That there are toys out there that I could insert inside myself and also give my partner the control of. Oh, yes, that would be hot. So mix it up, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 2: 23:23

Absolutely.

Speaker 1: 23:24

Make sure you're taking care of that clit while you're getting titty fucked. Don't forget the clit. Don't forget the clit. So cheers to using toys while being titty fucked. Well, and just in general, all right, we're going to move on to when should this occur? During sex, I mean at any point, right.

Speaker 2: 23:45

Right At any point. You don't have to actually do it to the point of ejaculation. If you're with a penis owner, it could be part of your foreplay to other intercourse. That's right. It can be foreplay, mm-hmm, or it can be the act itself.

Speaker 1: 25:11

It can be the whole thing, the whole shebang. You're just getting titty fucked for the day.

Speaker 2: 25:16

Yeah.

Speaker 1: 25:17

So, while we're talking about that and we're talking about when it occurs during your sex play session, when it occurs as the final act, the coup de grace is that what we call it, the coup de grace? Yeah let's the grand act and he comes. I think probably a big question on everybody's mind is where does that come go? Well, I mean, it's aimed right towards.

Speaker 2: 25:47

I mean. So if you're laying on your back, more than likely you're going to get a pearl necklace, maybe the bottom of your chin, unless he purposely like, pulls it out of your tits and shoots it on your face.

Speaker 1: 26:04

So yes, I mean, but I mean, let's be, I think, give everybody a fair warning, the chance that that come might you might get some you might get some on your face.

Speaker 1: 26:16

I mean, there's always the option of him like pulling back and coming on your stomach. This should be negotiated in advance. Folks, this is the part of the act, especially if you're doing it the first time. But every time you do it like, yeah, you can titty fuck me, do not come in my face or on my. You know whatever you get to talk about where that come ends up. But beware, if you're like, oh, come on my neck or whatever your face is on the splash pad area.

Speaker 2: 26:50

And if they handle their tool well and you're like I don't want it on my face, they can actually hold their penis down to where it would just shoot on your chest and roll back on your neck if you're on your back? I would hope so. Or let's say you're doing the whole squat while they're on the couch. Or let's say you're doing the whole squat while they're on the couch and you're like uh-uh, Because that if it goes off, it's going straight in your face.

Speaker 1: 27:18

Yeah, In that position.

Speaker 2: 27:20

If you don't want that, then you know. You need to verbalize that, Let me know, and then you would pull away and let's say you want it on your tits and they can hit you on their tits. Or maybe you want to turn over and have them shoot their wad on your ass crack.

Speaker 1: 27:35

Right, yeah, or you can tie it in, you could just, or you could finish it off with a blowjob, you could, and decide what you want to. You know whether you're swallowing or not. That's up to you at that point.

Speaker 1: 27:51

So that's an option you now, if you uh have listened to our semen facial uh podcast, obviously, and you're like you're thinking about doing this with your partner but you're like you feel weird about their cum on your neck or on your face, please take time to listen to this semen facial podcast because I think it can alleviate a lot of the anxiety around that. No, hopefully what it will do is alleviate a lot of the ick factor with that. I think it's fair for all of us to feel icky about certain sex and bodily you know fluid activities that come up during sex. But I think in that podcast we were really good about covering like, asking yourself, like, why do I find this icky? And like, and maybe working through some of that mental stuff.

Speaker 2: 28:43

Yeah, it was it got pretty deep.

Speaker 1: 28:46

It got pretty deep, and so if you're interested in adding this act to your sex repertoire of acts, obviously you got to really think about how that's all ending for you. You're going to have to have that conversation with your partner.

Speaker 1: 29:03

You're going to have to decide like, do I want to experiment with allowing some cum on my face or not? Um, allowing some cum on my face or not? But I highly suggest like, uh, really going through your thought processes and feelings around that. Um, and that podcast, I think is really helpful. It's certainly I still have not had a semen facial. Uh, I think it could be a fun way to tie in like a semen facial, if you're open to that definitely um, and have it be a super sexy, exciting event.

Speaker 1: 29:36

Um, yeah, yeah, have you? Have you had a uh boob sex ending in semen facial? Have you done that combo yet?

Speaker 2: 29:45

um, yeah, when it's been finished off with um head.

Speaker 1: 29:51

Okay.

Speaker 2: 29:52

Ratio.

Speaker 1: 29:53

Okay so.

Speaker 2: 29:54

Yeah, and you know, talking about that whole like game plan Also, you know things can change, and so one thing that we always talk about on this podcast is how important communication with your partner is, absolutely so let's say you guys, you and your partner talk about it. You're like, okay, let's do this. You're like I don't want any cum on me, yeah. And then in the act, you change your mind.

Speaker 1: 30:26

You get excited.

Speaker 2: 30:26

Which you can do. Right, just communicate that Right, because that's probably going to be really sexy to them. Right, just communicate that Right, because that's probably going to be really sexy to them Right when you're like, I want you to come all over my tits, or I want you to come and give me that glistening pearl necklace.

Speaker 2: 30:43

Or maybe you decide okay, I'm hot, I'm in it, I'm ready for the semen facial, right, but you can communicate that, yes. So if things change in the moment, that's okay, that's okay. That's why communication is so important, right.

Speaker 1: 30:58

Your sex situation. You set it up up front. You say I want to try this babe. I want you know.

Speaker 1: 31:04

I listened to this podcast and these, you know ladies made me think why not give it a try? Can we try that? But please, like I'm not, like do not come on my chest or my face, like maybe we'll end with sex or whatever. But then you're in it and something happens and you're like this is way better than I thought I have shared, I think, in past podcasts. I have learned in the last year I've always thought I was a decent communicator during sex and I'm not the best communicator during sex, which might surprise everybody. As much as I communicate about sex openly on this podcast.

Speaker 1: 31:43

When I'm in an act of sex, sometimes I fall short on words and I think that has also led to a lot of disappointing sex for me.

Speaker 1: 31:54

In my history. I've also felt ashamed to when I had that, you know, a dirty thought in the middle of sex and I'm getting heated up and I'm like oh I, you know you go back, you start flipping through the, the dirty fantasies that you've gotten from porn or like erotica and you're like God, I wish in this moment this thing could happen. But if I verbalize that, my partner is going to think I'm whatever number of dirty, dirty trashy, she's slutty. I don't want to be with a woman that would be into that. I mean, I'm hoping that in this day and age we know that that's sex shaming, slut shaming, and if you have a partner who's like that, they can just fuck right off, tell them to fuck off and fuck off, get down the road, that's right. So, um, being able to. If you have a moment you're like I do want to do that, then just say to your partner you can even stop and restart.

Speaker 1: 32:44

You can have that conversation. Uh, they can keep stroking themselves. Will you verbalize like I'm really turned on um, I want to use this vibrator on my clit. Will you finish off on my neck or face? You know, being able to do that in the moment is yeah and you know even the opposite.

Speaker 2: 33:04

So let's say you game, plan this with your partner and you tell them that you want them to give you your first facial.

Speaker 2: 33:14

And in the moment you're like, I don't know if I'm ready for that, you absolutely can change your mind. I think that's something that, as women, we sometimes struggle with is that we feel like, if we go into a situation sexually, that we can't change our mind on boundaries that we're set anytime in the moment, even if you're like, nope, I'm, I'm, I'm done, I don't want to go forward anymore. You have that right, and so you know, if you change your mind, verbalize it.

Speaker 1: 33:50

So cheers to that we can change our mind.

Speaker 2: 33:53

We can Anytime.

Speaker 1: 33:55

All right, guys, let's talk about why, because I know probably at the beginning a lot of you were like, and maybe some of the whys have been answered. But let's really strategically answer. Why titty sex? Why? Why fucking the boobs? It does seem sort of I don't know like. From my perspective, having not integrated into my sex life first, it felt like, oh, it's sort of one of those cliched acts that you know seems silly that nobody does. Now you had brought up some good reasons why a woman would want to have the option of titty sex. You want to share that with listeners.

Speaker 2: 34:30

Yeah, so while some women are comfortable with period sex, there are some of us, like myself, who are not comfortable with period sex. So this is an alternative because for some reason, you're horny while you're.

Speaker 2: 34:49

I mean, I don't know about others, but I'm not but um, I am, and so this is a way to get aroused, um to get some sexual pleasure. Yeah, I have no problem with, like, um, my clit being played with. I just don't want anything inside of you, inside of me. I mean I will have a tampon in because I want to be sure that the dam is plugged.

Speaker 1: 35:23

So my question is do you? Because for you this is you said you're horny, so you want to have sex, and so this is a good alternative. So for you, do you get a lot of sexual satisfaction from your boobs?

Speaker 2: 35:39

I do.

Speaker 1: 35:40

Because I mean, I know a lot of women not a lot. I know a couple women who don't get any. They're like I don't really get anything out of my boobs.

Speaker 2: 35:48

So but for you and I think a lot of I've also known a lot of women that really enjoy the breast stimulation and also I know that there's been um others in our circle have been on this podcast that also have said this that I'm really mentally stimulated. So, like my biggest androgynous zone is my brain. Like you, you can just talk words.

Speaker 1: 36:23

Dirty.

Speaker 2: 36:24

And get me going Right. So I don't know if it's really that my tits are so like sensitive and stuff or if it's more like that whole emotionally like stimulated.

Speaker 1: 36:39

Right.

Speaker 2: 36:39

Like I'm like this is hot Like I, because you know your male partner. I don't know a guy out there that's going to say they don't like or have not, if they've never done it, have not fantasized about it. Right, it seems to be the one.

Speaker 1: 36:55

Wait, do hey guys, men, men, or are people, humans with penises that are out there? If you are repelled by the idea of titty sex, will you please reach out to me? I want to hear, hear about that. If you're just kind of like that, that sounds dumb. I'm not going to try it. I also am curious about your perspective. Does anyone are repelled by that? How would you be repelled by it? Now, I do understand why women might be, but I want to talk about what appeals to me about it, what really appeals to me about the idea of being, of boob sex, being titty fucked. I do enjoy. I enjoy several roles in my sex life, but there is just something that is really sexy about being in a submissive position to a partner. It feels to me although I imagine you could speak to the opposite, but from my imaginings that it's a very it could, it's a very like a power dynamic happens in breast sex, especially if you're on the bottom or if you're restrained, and so the idea of that position it's like oh, that that is sexy.

Speaker 1: 38:07

Um, being able to enjoy that power dynamic that would happen there do you feel like being what, would you be the titty fucky the receiver like? Do you feel like you can do that from a them dom with the boobs? Can you like titty fuck a sub man? Yeah or cock, I don't know I can't pick, I've never done it, I'm not in my own dynamic, I I can't picture it that way, but I'm like, so tell me about that.

Speaker 2: 38:34

I mean. So, if you're in like a fem dom situation, our local expert's not here, so I'll do my best. Yeah, lucy our resident dominatrix. So there's chairs that are used sometimes where their hands are strapped.

Speaker 1: 39:58

Oh, the sub man. You can strap him to a chair how?

Speaker 2: 40:03

do you get in there? What about standing Well, that would be the whole like working those inner thighs and glutes by doing that squat. Also, if they are on the bed Restrained.

Speaker 1: 40:18

Restrained. I'm picturing it, I'm picturing it.

Speaker 2: 40:22

Watch out, you can be between their legs, on your knees.

Speaker 1: 40:26

Oh yeah, and you could also, but you can't squeeze your boobs together that way.

Speaker 2: 40:29

Yeah, you could, because you're like leaning down on them. You don't need to.

Speaker 1: 40:33

Yeah, maybe I've done it that way. Yeah, you could, because you're like leaning down on them. You don't need to.

Speaker 2: 40:34

Yeah, maybe I've done it. It's possible again.

Speaker 1: 40:38

You've got massive tits.

Speaker 2: 40:39

You don't even need to squeeze them together I mean, let's be fair um, or you know, if you have um I can't think of the name, but like the cross, oh, what is that?

Speaker 1: 40:53

oh, the crossing, but like the cross. Oh, what is that? Oh, the cross thing, yeah, but anyways that's true Now that, oh, you could totally, yeah, definitely squatting.

Speaker 2: 41:02

So, and once again, I'm being visual.

Speaker 1: 41:04

Yeah, I wish if you guys could just see the visuals over here.

Speaker 2: 41:08

I'm always visual. Yeah, I can't help it, yeah.

Speaker 1: 41:11

So what I mean? I think that especially let's say well, if you're really into that BDSM dynamic for a sub femme, female or woman, I think that it could be really sexy. I think it could be really really hot.

Speaker 2: 41:27

Addition, I think, if you are in a vanilla relationship and you're like you don't want to get into all the BDSM, I still think it's like it's a very sensual sexy. I mean, one of the biggest turn ons for me is the arousal my partner gets from it, right. So when my partner is clearly into it and getting a lot of pleasure, that makes me hot and aroused.

Speaker 1: 42:02

Yeah.

Speaker 2: 42:02

Because I'm telling you my brain is Right.

Speaker 1: 42:07

I can think of a lot of great dirty talk that could happen during that too.

Speaker 2: 42:11

Oh yeah, If you're a dirty talker, it gives you so much opportunity.

Speaker 1: 42:17

You know it's funny, I have never been good at giving dirty talk. Oddly enough, as much as I'm a word person, in bed I kind of clam up. But I love to be talked dirty too, and I am actually just right now in this last year, really learning how to talk dirty, because I do have a dirty script in the back of my head Then just voice it. I know I'm learning how to do that and it's super hot. But yeah, I think it would. You know, I understand why someone might say boob sex, that's so dumb, why do that? But, like I mean, why not add this to your sex sex repertoire, your sex box, your sex?

Speaker 2: 43:03

you know your list of acts that you want to do together. At least give it a shot. At least give it a shot. Don't knock it till, you try it, that's right.

Speaker 1: 43:09

I mean, why wouldn A cock will get on a nipple?

Speaker 2: 43:13

Oh it does, or you know, there's that pre-ejaculate.

Speaker 1: 43:19

I was just thinking about that. You can say that's a little bit of lube.

Speaker 2: 43:22

They could take, like the tip of their penis and rub it around your nipple with that pre-ejaculate. That's pretty similar. That would be sexy, that's pretty hot that is, that is sexy.

Speaker 1: 43:36

And if you don't like, your partners come or ejaculate again, start asking yourself why? Uh, because I, uh, my friends know, like deanna and I, ruby and I, have known each other for a very long time and I was very vocal. Ruby and I have known each other for a very long time and I was very vocal about really hating semen. I mean really hating semen and just being like it is a mess. I don't want it all over me, it's like mucusy. I mean. I had all these reasons.

Speaker 1: 44:08

I was like, why, oh why can't, you know, men ejaculate? Some like Dust Powder, baby powder, something that freshens me up afterwards and in sort of my own sexual journey I have. Definitely I'm still like. I have moments where I'm like you know, in my refractory period I'm like, oh, I don't want to like, I'm ready to be clean, or I don't want to like reach over and touch it or whatever. But even that's starting to dissipate just a little bit.

Speaker 1: 44:43

I would wish that for any woman who still likes to play with cocks that ejaculate. I would not at all want the repulsion that I experienced for women who continue to have those relationships. So but back to why. Why would a woman want who's in a sexual relationship with another woman, or a vulva owner want the strap on a titty fuck, and I think that comes back to like, if you like that power dynamic, um, the visual stimulation of I. Now I can imagine being in a dominant situation with another woman with a strap on um, and enjoying the visual of looking down at having that act with a woman when I put myself in that position. I'm like that would be fucking hot. In which case I'm like, oh, that's why a guy would enjoy it. They also get more of a physical stimulation, however.

Speaker 2: 45:51

There are strap-ons, ladies, that come with vibration and stimulation If you're not using a strap-on that has a little pocket rocket pocket you need to be.

Speaker 1: 46:01

Yes, so in which case you can actually have that stimulation for yourself, while getting the visual satisfaction of watching. You know your partner's beautiful breasts you know, you know, sliding against this thing and then giving her nipple nipple stimulation and stuff like that. So I had not, until today, even like considered that. Actually I don't think I had considered the idea of two women doing this sex act until you were here and we were kind of like going over what we wanted to talk about and I was like oh, I'm like I could get into that right, and if you want, if you have not heard the pegging episode, if you want to go back.

Speaker 2: 46:48

We kind of talk about, um, that dynamic. When, as a woman, you're wearing a strap-on. It is a very different feeling, yes, and it's a very. You're definitely in the dominant role and that's one of the turn-ons for me is like there's a rush that comes with that for sure.

Speaker 2: 47:12

Yes, because it's pretty obvious that, even if you are in a situation with a male partner or a female partner non-binary when you have a strap-on on, you really are the dominant one in that situation and that's part of the the rush for me anyways and you are in sole control of giving that pleasure, because you know when someone sucks your cock and it's a strap on. Oh, I've never done that. I have not had my cock sucked Well it's, I mean it's hot, yeah, so you have had this done before?

Speaker 1: 48:01

Was it a woman or a man who sucked your cock? A man? One thing I want to say before we close out this podcast is we bring up a simple sex act. Boob sex up front sounds simple. Boob sex up front sounds simple. It's easy to dismiss it as like that's just some dumb, like cliche thing from whenever. Nobody does that.

Speaker 1: 48:22

But when you really start diving into, like when I really start thinking about these things that are out there that I've not done, that are so basic I mean, it is, it's right there for you and I start questioning why I haven't done it, I start questioning, well, if I did it, how could it be exciting? I'm going to be selfish. I want it to be fucking exciting for me. Like I know how I can get a partner off and why it would be exciting to him, but I want to know, like why would I want to do this? Because I am, I feel very strongly about not engaging in sex acts that I don't want to. Like I want to be all in, I want to get something out of it, I want to feel satisfaction, I want to feel sexy. So I start like trying to imagine what would make this exciting for me and through conversations, through research, which I do do prior to these, oftentimes I'm surprised at how I, how I'm like God. That could be exciting, that could be sexy.

Speaker 1: 49:27

I like to have the opportunity. You know whatever it is and and so you take one simple sex act. It sounds very simple. A guy walks up to you, you push your boobs together, he, like, pumps away and is done. That's how, in my mind, it was prior to this conversation.

Speaker 1: 49:44

But this actually could be worked into a whole array of scenarios that could last for a couple of minutes, it could last for 15 to 20 minutes. It could be with a female partner, it could be with a male partner. I could be dominant, I could be submissive, I could get stimulated, I could get some fun nipple play and I could have toys attached. It could be BDSM experience, it could be a facial experience. It's kind of amazing to me how, if you take time to stop and not go with your first judgment, you may open the door to a new opportunity that you end up loving. Raise your hand, give me like some sign. Who all is out there. That's getting titty fucked. I want to hear from women or men. Tell me, are you, are your female partners letting you titty fuck them Like? I want to know from people, all humans out there, I would love, I would love to hear from women who are a strap on titty fucking each other.

Speaker 2: 50:48

I mean, I've been to sex clubs and clearly you see it there, so it's happening. And it's weird because I would, I would think of anal is out there and people are more open about anal sex. That poop sex is a lot milder in in my, my thinking.

Speaker 1: 51:13

I mean except like it could end in the facial and it's not mild but it doesn't have to, I'm still intimidated by the facial.

Speaker 2: 51:22

It's easy to not end in a facial.

Speaker 1: 51:24

Right, right.

Speaker 2: 51:25

Personally, I would think if you're saving yourself for marriage cause, you're a good Christian girl, boob sex is for you. Right. Instead of having anal, I would much rather go to the boob sex Boob. Sex is for you, right. Instead of having anal, I would much rather go to the boob sex Boob sex is for you, hey, that's great advice.

Speaker 1: 51:40

And again, if you are a Christian woman and you, I'm not going to. I don't want to shame your choice of religion, but again, this is something that could be acceptable. God damn it. I think we fucking covered titty fucking, mammary intercourse, that's right. I actually found what was called mammary intercourse and boob fucking.

Speaker 2: 52:06

Boob sex.

Speaker 1: 52:09

We gave you a solid boob sex 101. If you disagree, guess what you do? A-n-n-e-t-t-e. Annette at SheExploresLifecom, feel free to tell me. Tell me how it should have been done. I dare you. I'm inviting some mansplaining, even.

Speaker 2: 52:27

Oh, yeah, mansplain this.

Speaker 1: 52:29

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