Attraction Hack! How To Use Pheromone Perfumes, Colognes & Sprays to Help You Get Laid

Welcome, to another episode of Locker Room Talk & Shots! Today, we're delving deep into the intoxicating realm of attraction, and we've got the ultimate love coach and entrepreneur, Jackie Rubinoff from Eye of Love, in the hot seat. Get ready to unlock the secrets of love's secret weapon: pheromones! This isn't your average science lesson; it's a seductive journey into the world of natural signals that can elevate your confidence and allure in both romance and career. Jackie spills the beans on how to use pheromones to enhance your presence, create a magnetic aura, and navigate the dating minefield with finesse. From busting myths to exploring the possibility of pheromones playing Cupid without the visual element, this episode is your guide to unleashing the power of scent. So, if you're ready to spice up your love life, boost your confidence, and discover the allure of pheromones, grab your favorite drink and join us in this tantalizing conversation with Jackie Rubinoff. Cheers to love, lust, and the sweet scent of seduction!
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Transcript

Annette Benedetti: 0:28

Hi, this is Annette Benedetti, your host for for locker room talk and shots, the podcast that likes to think of itself as the queer NPR of raunchy women's sex talk. You are about to sit in on the kind of conversations women have on their girls' nights out or behind closed doors, while enjoying delicious drinks and dishing about sex, think fun, honest and feminist as fuck, and always with the goal of fighting the patriarchy. One female orgasm at a time. Welcome to the locker room. Today's locker room talk and chocks topic is smells like sexual confidence, pheromones and the art of seduction.

Annette Benedetti: 1:18

So we are in the heart of the season of love. We have got cuffing season overlapping with Valentine's Day. It is cold outside and most of us are either looking for someone to hook up with and stay warm with, or to maybe heat up our current love life with some extra O's. And, as it turns out, for those of us who may be struggling a little bit more I'm not saying that I am, but if I were, there is a hack out there I like to think of it as a hack or maybe a helping hand up in the dating and sexual confidence world. It is hot on TikTok and I would say it's an emerging or reemerging topic out there in the love, sex romance world. It's all about pheromones and how you can use pheromones in your own love life, whether you're looking to date or to heat things up.

Annette Benedetti: 2:16

And, as it turns out, my guest today is perfect to address this topic. My guest is Jackie Rubinoff. She is a love coach and relationship expert, but that's not all. She is also an entrepreneur and the co-owner and vice president of Eye of Love, a distinguished company specializing in high-end pheromone-powered sensual products. Jackie is at the forefront of creating innovative solutions to enhancing people's love lives, and she leverages her expertise to offer invaluable advice and guidance to singles and couples alike. Welcome, jackie, and I am going to hand the mic over to you just to tell my listeners a little bit more about you.

Jacquie Ruben off: 3:03

Thank you so much for that intro. I feel like I couldn't have said it better myself. But yeah, I'm so excited to be here today and I make different products designed to enhance your love life. So that's my main goal is just to help people have better relationships, better friendships, better. You know love lives, whether they're working or playing or being intimate. My goal is just to help give you that extra added edge in your daily life. So that's what we do with our products, which I'm sure we'll get into later on.

Annette Benedetti: 3:46

Yeah, so I have been using the pheromone products that Jackie and her company have created now for the couple of weeks, maybe almost a month now, so I'm really excited to talk to you about them. I think what's special about this podcast is that not only are you an expert in sort of the world of pheromone use, that is coupled with you already being a love and relationship coach, so there's just a lot of knowledge there for my listeners who are really looking at putting energy in 2021, in 2024 into their relationships, which you know, right now we all have our resolutions and hopefully, especially for the my listener base, I am hoping some of your resolutions were around love and sex and romance and having a better intimate life, so I am ready to get this conversation going. I'm having coffee over here and Jackie is a little bit saucy, or over there with her. She's a little boozy, which I wish I was, but I woke up late today.

Jacquie Ruben off: 4:57

I'm so refreshed.

Annette Benedetti: 4:59

So I'm ready. Let's cheers, let's talk about pheromone sex and love. So first, first and foremost, can you tell my listeners what pheromones are? Let's just start with basics.

Jacquie Ruben off: 5:14

Yes, let's start with the basics.

Jacquie Ruben off: 5:16

So everybody has pheromones. We all have pheromones in our body and it's what we give off and it's what is makes people attracted to you and drawn to you and feel closer to you, not only in a sexual way but also just in a friendly way. Like I was mentioning earlier, when you breathe in pheromones it goes through your nasal, nasal passage to the hypothalamus and it triggers a response of arousal and attraction. So if there is an attraction, it will just kind of break down those walls and allow you to take that relationship further. But if there's no attraction at all, you're not immediately just going to be sexually attracted to someone, but you will feel closer to them in a social way, in a friendly way. So a lot of our customers will tell us that you know it helped them with their sales, it helped them make more tips. It helped them if they're a valet parker, if they're a bartender, if they are, you know, real estate agents we sell a lot to. We say it just gives you that little extra edge in your daily life.

Annette Benedetti: 6:30

You focused on sort of the effect on other people, but how? Because I noticed. First of all, I want to say the minute I opened your products and you sent me three different clones or perfumes Right, fair Mone based perfumes I was instantly, and I was actually here with my 21 year old daughter. We opened them and instantly, you know for sure, and I'm very, I'm very sensitive to sense, meaning that they have a strong effect on me. I mean, if there is someone who I'm not fond of and they smell really good, sometimes my, my erogenous zones will light up and I'm like what are you doing? So I have a strong natural reaction to scent. But one question I have is how do they just affect? Let's say, if no one's in the room and you are exposed to pheromones, what is that effect?

Jacquie Ruben off: 7:27

So pheromones can help you feel more confident. They can make you feel more outgoing, they can make you feel more social, like I know that when I put on my pheromones in the morning, like I immediately feel more sexy, more confident. I wear it, you know, if I'm at a trade show and it helps me, you know, feel confident making those interactions. So it's not just for the wearer, I mean, it's not just for other people, it's also for yourself, to give you that extra boost. And you mentioned the fragrances as well. So our pheromones actually work on two different levels our products so you have the pheromones in there, which stimulate that chemical reaction that we spoke about earlier, and then you also have a fragrance in there as well. And each of our fragrances are, you know, made from different things, like vanilla and jasmine and grapefruit, creamy white chocolate, also attracting ingredients as well. So that also gives you that little extra boost and also makes you feel sexy and confident and good as well.

Annette Benedetti: 8:37

Yeah, and I just wanna say, like I, love the sense, and I had certain sense that I was drawn to more and we'll get into those, and then, of course, listeners. I will have an article to go along with this where you can see all of the different products. But I am curious when it comes to dating and attracting people first of all, how can people use and know which pheromone to get and use this in their love life, in dating also, within just their current love life? What is the role that using pheromones can play?

Jacquie Ruben off: 10:03

So, going back to the question of like, how do they know which pheromone to get? So we use two different pheromones in our products. So, by the way, all of our pheromones are vegan. They're cruelty free and derived from the wild yam root, so we don't use any animal byproducts or anything like that. But we use two different pheromones. We have estrathetronol, which is used to attract him, and then we have andrathenol, which is used to attract her. So, based on who you're looking to attract, you'll want to choose the product that's right for you.

Annette Benedetti: 10:43

And so that leads me to the question like I'm a bisexual woman and when I go out into the larger world, I'm I personally I'm bi bisexual. I want to attract everyone. Basically, I'm looking for everyone, and whoever arrives is a lucky person, right? So what would you say to someone who isn't, you know, or is interested in non-binary people? What, how does that work?

Jacquie Ruben off: 11:08

So we actually have an attract them product and I have it here on the table with all my products. So this is our matchmaker attract them. So this is for people who are gender fluid, non-binary this is the product for you. So this actually has both pheromones inside and so friends, just so you know you can go to my YouTube channel, Annette Benedetti.

Annette Benedetti: 11:34

There you can see anything we're holding up. She was holding up her perfume that I have loved perfume. I would call it perfume, a pheromone based perfume called matchmaker. I do have that one. I love the way it smells and I actually did wear it over the past week and I'm just saying I got some matchmaker, I got some attention.

Jacquie Ruben off: 11:57

Good. I mean, I know, I know my favorite part about this business is the stories that I get every day from our customers. That's my favorite part.

Annette Benedetti: 12:06

So I do want to say I was sort of in a situation with a group of different people and it was interesting there were and it was a wide variety and sort of for the first time I've been sharing with my listeners over the last I don't know, I don't even know how many months it is I've gone through what has been a very challenging break up and, just in that, a lot of sadness, and it really turned off my libido and just my, you know, that extra sexy something that I tend to have a lot of, obviously, topic of discussion on this podcast, and I've been fine with that.

Annette Benedetti: 12:52

But I have been wearing your different products just to kind of play with how it makes me feel. But I wore this one specifically because I knew I was gonna be in a group and I was like, hey, I'd like to get a little sexy back, I'd like to start feeling more confident and, you know, put myself out there a little bit. And I'm gonna be honest with you, it was sort of I did experience sort of this electric connection with someone, not in that I'm ready to like launch into any huge like relationship or anything like that, but it was sort of the first time in a long time where I met someone who I didn't know, I hadn't you know. It was a brand new human and, honestly, it kind of happened with more than one person and that was interesting to me, like I had zingers going off left and right is what I'm trying to say and I felt super confident and I didn't experience any anxiety during my interactions with people or after. So.

Jacquie Ruben off: 14:03

You're experiencing the pheromone advantage. Yeah, I love that. Yeah, you described like exactly what we. That's exactly what our product does. It just gives you that little extra and little extra edge. I know a lot of other pheromone brands. They'll market that. You know you're gonna spread and everyone's gonna come running like the axe commercial and that's not how it works. We wish it did, because that would be great for us. But it doesn't work like that and we don't market that. It does do that because it doesn't, but it does make you know, gives you that electric feeling. It makes you know, makes you feel confident, makes you feel good.

Annette Benedetti: 14:42

That was a distinct feeling that I haven't had in a very long time. That, especially out in you know groups of people where I know you know everyone's dressed up, it was, you know, kind of a little a small party situation. But I think even more A the electricity was nice because it told me, like I'm still, I still got it, I still got it. Folks, she's coming back around. But I think the other thing that really stood out to me that sometimes I don't think people realize, especially in the dating and sexual confidence world, is that underlying self questioning that can pop up when we're trying to attract people. Or Even though you may not want to attract people, you just want to feel like a presence that draws people in so that when you're at the point where you want to attract someone, like you're sitting in a place of advantage rather than anxious. Do they notice me? How do they feel about me?

Annette Benedetti: 15:42

What I noticed while wearing this is I don't get into the, I don't have anxiousness around it at all, I don't have a lot of self-questioning.

Annette Benedetti: 15:53

I feel this level of calm inside and just confidence in where I'm at and who I am, and I hope some of that is just me doing my own self-work, but I am, again, very strongly affected by scent and I have also been using there's another product that you created that's called Confidence. So I actually have that here and it is it's my favorite scent and I actually put it on at night before I go to bed so that I am like I sleep in that scent and so part of me like and it feels like I have had this more this. I call it calmness. Maybe other people experience confidence differently than I do. I tend to be a very confident person, but my confidence is undermined by anxiety, and that anxiety within me has dissipated largely. So I'm certainly fascinated with the use of pheromones and I have noticed a marked difference since I've been using it. I'm sleeping in it, so I would hope so.

Jacquie Ruben off: 17:04

I've never. I've never heard. That's the first time I've heard about like using the pheromones for calmness to go to sleep. Like it makes sense. It makes total sense, I just because people are always using our products when they're going out, when they're seeing people. But, like you're right, it makes sense to go to sleep. I think I'm going to try it tonight with my two toddlers that are like driving me crazy. They'll go to sleep, I'll spray myself with pheromones and then hopefully pass out.

Annette Benedetti: 17:28

Yeah, and the nice thing is it kind of gets into my blankets too, so I can go and take a nap and I, you know anyways, that's how I've been using it. I feel like I noticed well. I know that I did well in a group setting. So in attracting people, you know, there is the myth I want to kind of talk about the myths that you you addressed a little bit where you've got products out there and they're like you spray them on and people come running to you. What that isn't the case, right it? That's the myth.

Jacquie Ruben off: 18:48

That's the myth. I mean we we wish that was the case, but we also never make any guarantees because there's so many other factors that go into it. You know we could give you the best pheromones in the world, but if you have, you know, a rude personality or you're, you know you're not being nice or you know there's so many other factors that can go into it. So we never like I said, we never make any claims or things like that. Yeah, a lot of other brands will use techniques like that that they'll say you know you'll spray it, everyone's going to come running, but it's, it's really not like that.

Annette Benedetti: 19:26

So the other thing you mentioned is that you take the pheromones from yams. Now I don't know anything about the science of where I was under the stand, understanding that some people use animal based pheromones in their product. Can you talk a little bit about the difference between human pheromones, animal pheromones, the the kind you are using, because I could see people wondering like how does taking pheromones from something else relate to human, to human interaction?

Jacquie Ruben off: 19:58

Yeah, so our pheromones, like I said, they're synthesized from the wild DM route. That's where they get a lot of other hormones, like when they make like the synthetic, like estrogen and progesterone, they get it from this root as well. So we've been able to recreate pheromones, the human pheromones, like that. But as far as other brands, I know a lot of other brands will use like pigs urine or different things like that, and I can't speak on those because obviously I don't, I don't believe in that, but I lost my train of thought but I forgot what.

Annette Benedetti: 20:35

the question? Yeah, just the difference between and. So one of the things that I had read is that a lot of the pheromone products were made from animal urine, which automatically is a clit shrinker. For me, I'm like oh, that doesn't you know, so is is it different? The pheromones you're using which are are plant based, versus ones taken from animal pee?

Jacquie Ruben off: 21:02

Yes, they're, they're very different. Those are like very like low quality, low grade pheromones, versus what we're using is like the top of the line, very, very high quality, pure vegan pheromones. So they really they really don't compare.

Annette Benedetti: 21:21

So this is a vegan friendly product. I love that. So now let's kind of move into talking to people who are going into dating. You have the background of being a relationship, a love coach. Can we offer some advice to someone who's like? It is cold, it is cuffing season. I want to go out and attract somebody. But let's start with some of the common challenges people face, kind of getting out there and and starting from scratch. What are some tips that you would give to someone?

Jacquie Ruben off: 21:55

First of all, I would say go to places to find the type of person that you're looking for. So let's say, like, if you're into working out, go to the gym. If you, you know, want to meet a doctor, for example, like volunteer at a hospital, like, go to specific places to find the type of person you're looking for. If you're looking for someone who's you know in finance or business and then you're just going out to clubs, it's harder to find that person, whereas you know, if you go to specific events where you can find that person, it makes it a lot easier. That's my first tip.

Jacquie Ruben off: 22:35

I would say confidence is key and like knowing your worth I think you touched on it earlier that you're always focused about like, am I, you know? Do I look right? Do I like worried about yourself and how you're acting and how you're behaving? But you're looking for your life partner, you know. So this is there. They should be on their best behavior. It's not about you and what you know, how you are. It's what do you want? What are you looking for? So, just being confident and knowing your value and knowing that you deserve the best, because you know nobody is gonna be attracted to someone who's not even confident in themselves. You know, I.

Annette Benedetti: 23:19

Love. I love that Mind frame switch in the dating world. Two things I want to come back to that you just talked about. First of all, you know, know, where did you mention Dating apps? And I think people are burnt out on dating apps. So then the first question people always bring up is well, how do I, how do I meet People? Where am I going to meet people? Well, you have to leave your house to start, and I love the idea of choosing where to go to meet people based on the kind of person you want to meet.

Annette Benedetti: 23:57

Clubs are fun and everything, and sure, you might bump into someone sexy, but you really don't. You know, you don't know who you're gonna meet there, and people are mostly going there Just to have fun, maybe hook up, you know. So really choosing your extracurricular activities or if you're going to volunteer or if you, you know, whatever it is based on the kind of person that you want to date. And then the second thing was confidence is is the new sexy right totally? And Knowing your worth. I think one thing that I have learned for myself is that If I'm not already in a place or a position of knowing my worth and I have no business being out there trying to attract someone Like I'm gonna be at a disadvantage and I'm gonna be willing to downgrade to someone who doesn't, who's not going to treat me the way I want to be treated, so and it.

Annette Benedetti: 24:57

And then this is where pheromones come into play. If you are not meeting people on dating apps, if you are putting yourself in Situations where you can meet the kind of people you want to meet, using pheromones, a to attract them, but also also for the Self-confidence and self-love peace. So I want to move on to now the sexual confidence piece. One thing I did notice is that you also offer Central products that include things like massage candles with pheromones in them. Can we talk about how you can use pheromone products? Let's say you don't need to attract someone new. You have your partner You've been with for I don't know two, three, five, ten years, but you want to Up the game in bed. How can you use pheromones in bed?

Jacquie Ruben off: 25:46

So, going back to the massage candle, those are a great way to, you know, create that romantic ambiance with your lover. A lot of times, like couples will just like not do anything special to keep that spark alive and just expect things to happen. But relationships take work, you know. You have to put in the work, you have to put in the effort, you have to create that romantic environment and make it make it special for your lover.

Jacquie Ruben off: 26:18

So one of our, my favorite products is our pheromone massage candle. So what you can do is you can light it, you wait for it to start melting and then, once the oil starts to melt, you can, you know, pour it all over your body or your partner's body To give each other a massage. Or, if you're single, you know, you can light it, take a shower, use it all over your body as your you know daily moisturizer and gives you that, you know, soothing, relaxing, you know, feel as well as the pheromones and the fragrance. But going back to using it with your partner, again, you can create that romantic environment and, you know, just just keep the spark alive. You can also, of course, spray the pheromones on yourself, and we have couples kits and things like that.

Annette Benedetti: 27:20

Do you find that you can use pheromones to actually enhance the pleasure side of it, meaning that when you're actually in sort of having sex with your partner and wanting to be more orgasmic, it can help that end of things Like?

Jacquie Ruben off: 27:40

do you? Orgasm better yeah yeah, yeah, of course. Yeah, you can spray it on before and it will just help, you know, reignite that spark and help you guys, you know, really connect and feel drawn to each other and attracted to each other and closer to each other. So, yeah, definitely.

Annette Benedetti: 28:01

So in a way it is a libido enhancer to a certain extent. Yeah, I mean, I guess in my own experience because I guess that's what's you know, my contribution to this conversation is one of the biggest barriers to especially women, women's libido and getting in the mood and feeling sexy is anxiety and anxiousness and getting in your head and self doubt. When you're in bed, you know, feeling confident naked. So it would seem to me that anything that helps lower that kind of barrier is going to help increase your libido.

Jacquie Ruben off: 28:43

Exactly yeah.

Annette Benedetti: 28:44

Could you talk to me a little bit about? Let's start. I'd like to dive into more of the myths around pheromone usage and what are some common myths that you wanted to spell and and truth maybe spread for my listeners.

Jacquie Ruben off: 29:03

One of the things is pheromones can't, you know, fix a bad attitude or behavior or anything like that will get messages all the time of people like I sprayed it and I went out and it didn't work and it's like, well, what do you, what did you think was going to happen? Like, what are you expecting is is going to happen. Adjusting the expectations, like we spoke about before so that's definitely a myth is that it's like the end all be all, that you're going to spray it and like that's it. You're going to be attracting everyone.

Annette Benedetti: 29:39

Yeah, I mean, one of the things that came up in my research was like the ethics around using pheromones, like because you'd be like forcing someone to fall in love with you. That is a myth that we need to like dispel right now. I thought this was really interesting in the scientific community. It's like they yes, among animals, pheromones work this way, but we aren't sure about humans and I was like how, how, how would you think that pheromones wouldn't affect humans? Because to me, I think we all know we've we understand.

Annette Benedetti: 30:14

I think we often refer to it as chemistry with other people. You meet someone and for some reason, right away you just feel this like attraction, this animal, like draw to some people and other people. You're like on paper, you know you're gorgeous on paper, you pencil out to be like a great match for me, but nothing is happening in my lower loin region, Like my body does not care about you and I have to really work to get that attraction going. So I guess a good question would be let's say you meet someone who's good on paper, they're gorgeous, they check all your boxes, but you just aren't feeling it. Could you use pheromones to enhance that? Would it actually fix the problem or what are your thoughts around that?

Jacquie Ruben off: 31:07

I mean you could, but if the chemistry is not there, when you're not, using the pheromones, I wouldn't, you know.

Jacquie Ruben off: 31:15

Again, if this is someone that you're looking for a long term relationship with and you can't get there on your own without the pheromones, then I don't know if I would, if I would recommend that. It made me think of the Love is Blind show where, like you know I don't know if you've seen it yeah, of course they're behind the closed doors and everything. You know. Their conversation is going great, everything's good, and then once they meet in person, you know the chemistry wasn't there, the pheromones weren't there, they just couldn't get there with that spark. And, yeah, maybe the pheromones would have helped them for, you know, a short period of time, but you know, if long term they couldn't get there, then I don't think it would be.

Annette Benedetti: 32:00

So that brings me to the question of if you can. But pheromones aren't based on line of sight, but I assume like their physical barriers would stop pheromones from crossing. But even if you can't see someone, the pheromones still work right. Let's say they did. Love is Blind and everyone was just wearing a blindfold, but they were sitting in the same room with each other. In those situations, would you start feeling the tug towards someone? Would that change? Do you think how that show worked?

Jacquie Ruben off: 32:37

Yeah, I think for sure, Like if they were able to be in the same room and just not see each other and have the pheromones. I think definitely they would feel that for sure, I do too.

Annette Benedetti: 32:48

I've definitely been in situations with, in places, with people where I don't know, I believe it. I just I feel like you can feel that energetic pull.

Jacquie Ruben off: 32:58

Oh, you can feel the energy completely.

Annette Benedetti: 33:01

So are there different pheromones you should use for different stages of dating or different stages of relationships?

Jacquie Ruben off: 33:08

I would say we have different pheromones for different times of day, but not like for different periods of time. So like, for example, we have Morning Glow, which is our daytime fragrance to attract him. So the difference with that one is just the fragrance, which is more like a lanying, laying jasmine apple blossom. So you spray it in the morning and it gives you that like just boost of energy and like feeling you know ready to tackle the day, whereas you know after dark is for, you know after hours, when you're, you know, either cuddled up with your lover or you're going out at night and it's, you know, vanilla, creamy, white chocolate. It's very sexy, it's very sensual for the evening time. So we do have different ones for different times of day.

Annette Benedetti: 33:58

So you're mixing the pheromones with different scents or different herbs, and those the scents and herbs as well have their own Aphrodisiac type of effect. Correct, which? Which herbs or scents do you think have, or do you know have, the strongest effect on attracting someone else?

Jacquie Ruben off: 34:24

Like for me personally, I love to wear a vanilla, like I feel like my husband loves it and he's like super attracted to it and he feels like it's like really sexy and sensual. So for me I feel like that's the most attracting. But it completely depends on the person and their preference, because some people are completely drawn to more like citrus and grapefruit, and then other people are really drawn to like woodsy, sandalwood fragrances. So that's why we have over 30 different fragrances In addition to the pheromones is because, you know, everybody likes something else.

Annette Benedetti: 35:03

Yeah, I was going to say I don't think fruity is very sexy. That's always been my thing Like. I very much like the spacey sense and stuff like that. So do you think, without the pheromones included, that scent itself has that attraction boosting ability?

Jacquie Ruben off: 35:21

Yeah, definitely, and you'll see a lot of fragrances out there that will call themselves a pheromone, but there's no actual pheromones inside. Because of that, what you just mentioned the fragrance is stimulating different feelings.

Annette Benedetti: 35:36

Is there a lot of science or research around which scents have, which effects on people in the sex and love and attraction world?

Jacquie Ruben off: 35:46

Yeah, there is. There's been like a lot of research done with different fragrances and concentrations and all of that good stuff.

Annette Benedetti: 35:55

So when you create your products, you are doing that based on what the research says and what scents do what in what amount.

Jacquie Ruben off: 36:06

Yeah, but also for us our main component is the pheromones and then the fragrance is just an extra layer on top of it. So the pheromones is what's really going to stimulate that chemical reaction of attraction and arousal. And then we say the fragrance really just complements the mood and the feeling and the outcome.

Annette Benedetti: 36:28

Yeah, I find it interesting because, you know, in my mind then I was like, well, what if the person, let's say, I'm going on a date and I really want someone to be attracted to me, and then I'm like what if they don't like the same scent I do? I think in the end the scent is an added bonus, but in the end it's really like the confidence I get and feel is more important than what they like the scent of. Because I think again, confidence is sexy. It's really really sexy and I'm talking about, you know, nice confidence. I'm not talking about douchebaggy. You know what I mean.

Annette Benedetti: 37:10

Dudes, like guys who are listening to this podcast right now, do not do the douchebag. Confidence is not sexy, like well earned sexy confidence is sexy. It is sort of, I think really the hack in the dating world right Is going into date. Confident is going to give you an edge. Now, if the pheromones you have on also get them turned on and make them, you know, more than great. Now you've got a double edge right. If the scent is, you know, not their thing, my guess is the confidence plus the pheromones would trump, like that's not their favorite scent.

Jacquie Ruben off: 37:55

Totally yeah. And, by the way, we do also have unscented. If you just want the pheromones with no fragrance, if you want to wear it with your own perfume, or if you're sensitive to fragrances, we have that option as well.

Annette Benedetti: 38:09

Oh, that's cool. That's cool, yeah, I like that.

Jacquie Ruben off: 38:12

It is really cool it's, and sometimes I'll like layer it with my own perfume. Usually I'll wear ours, but sometimes if I'll have a different perfume, I'll just layer it on top. And also I was going to say it's not too overpowering. I know you said you were nervous about like them liking the scent for the pheromones. You just want to spray one to two sprays in your chest area where your sweat glands are, because that's where the pheromones are best activated. So it's not. I mean you can spray it in other places for the fragrance, but you don't need a lot, you just need one or two sprays. So it's not going to be like you walk into the room and it's like heavy and overpowering.

Annette Benedetti: 38:53

I love the scents. Again, I love. I'm very affected by scents but they aren't overwhelming. And even when I have accidentally mis-aimed it and which I don't know apparently a thing that happens to me a lot and I've over sprayed, very quickly it just dissipates to a place where I don't you know, smell like a perfume factory as I walk around. See, I love that, I, but some people are so sensitive to scents, so I love that you have the option of just the pheromone which doesn't need you said it doesn't have a scent, the pheromone.

Jacquie Ruben off: 39:28

No, the pheromones themselves are unscented, so that's why we add different fragrances to them.

Annette Benedetti: 39:35

I feel like for listeners, whether you are wanting to attract someone or just feel better in your own life, like so. You know, I've been really working on my own self love routine. I have a weekly podcast episode that comes out. That's masturbation Monday. That's really just all about building my own self love practice and my own confidence and feeling good about and loving on myself. I feel like pheromones at least I clearly am using it in that role, with myself right To feel confident and feel good about myself and it seems like in the role of finding love, in the role of bettering your life and feeling sexier and drawing the people you want to you and you even mentioned at the beginning of the podcast this could be friendships, this could be work relationships. Using pheromones can do help you out with all of that. Is that correct, yeah?

Jacquie Ruben off: 40:39

that's correct and, honestly, that's most of the testimonials that we get from people. Like I was saying earlier, like people will use it when, if they're in college and they're trying to make new friends, they'll use it for, you know, social anxiety, really, anything like I said dancers, bartenders, waitresses, people who work in hotels, hospitality, meetings, trade shows, really anything that you need either that boost of confidence or you just want people to feel good being around you.

Annette Benedetti: 41:18

Right, and this is all science backed, correct.

Jacquie Ruben off: 41:22

Yes.

Annette Benedetti: 41:22

And I will be on my own going through and reviewing these and telling listeners and readers on SheExploresLifecom about the different products, which ones I use and how they've worked for me. So stay tuned for that, guys. Scroll down. There's always a link to my e-newsletter that you can sign up for so that you can receive my reviews and more information. But before we go, do you have things that you would like to share with my listeners that we may have not hit on about using pheromones in their love life, in their sex life, in just their life in general? Any last things? You wanna leave them with tips, tricks, anything like that?

Jacquie Ruben off: 42:08

I think we touched on pretty much everything, but my biggest tip is just to feel confident, feel sexy and know that you are worth it and that you are the star.

Annette Benedetti: 42:24

You are the star. I mean, I am the star, for sure.

Jacquie Ruben off: 42:27

Or the star. It's not about other people that you're going out to look for, to attract. It's about you and what you're giving out and what you're the energy that you're bringing to the world. So that's my biggest tip.

Annette Benedetti: 42:40

I love that. I love that it's pointing out that it's not about other people. I think we get hung up in that it's that it's about the other person. It really is about you and how you feel about yourself, and the rust will fall into place and you can give yourself an edge by wearing some pheromones to pull people towards you a little bit more.

Jacquie Ruben off: 43:00

Yes.

Annette Benedetti: 43:01

Can you let listeners know where they can find out more about you, more about I, of Love and about attracting people with pheromones?

Jacquie Ruben off: 43:10

Yeah, you can find I of Love at wwwIofLovecom, spelled like your I-E-Y-E of lovecom. We also have an Instagram and a TikTok and Facebook and it's all just at I of Love. And then me personally. I'm on Instagram just Jaxjax and then Rubenoff R-U-B-I-N-O-F-F.

Annette Benedetti: 43:40

Check it out listeners, give it a try and report back to me. I want to know what happens when you use pheromones, do you? How do you feel about yourself? How did it work in the dating world? If you're dating or if you currently have a partner, did it affect how you felt with them or how they felt about you? And remember, this will not make up for any personality issues you've got going on. You got to fix those things, and I've got a lot of content. Scroll back. I've got plenty of advice in past episodes on how to be great in bed. So thank you so much for joining me today, jackie. All right, guys, until next time I will see you in the locker room. Cheers premium.